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Lost baby mommy to C, B and F 19 kids; 1 angel baby; Escondido, California 1175 posts
20th Nov '12

Today I was suppose to be 11 weeks and I went to hAve my first appt and ultrasound well as soon as she put the wand in I knew something was wrong the baby was hard to see and wasn't moving and no flickering heartbeat she tried over and over to find it and brought in another doc which also confirmed my baby died they said it happened prolly a week ago since it only measured at 9 weeks I just don't understand at all I have two health kids how could I loose this one we tried for 6 months to get pregnant it was so amazing when we found out today was suppose to be a happy day I can't believe this idk how to coup I've just been zoned out all day I'm going in tomorrow to have the baby removed cause I can't handle my body doing it on it's own I just idk how why or what I'm so lost right now

I'm actually a virgin Due June 9; 1 child; Oregon 18466 posts
20th Nov '12

I'm very sorry for your loss. (Hugs)

It's so Fluffayy! Due March 17; 19 kids; Texas 4279 posts
20th Nov '12

I'm sorry for your loss hun

Bri + One ♥ Due October 19; 1 child; Florida 4316 posts
20th Nov '12

I'm so sorry. :(

Emma's Mama ♥ 1 child; 1067 posts
20th Nov '12

I'm sorry that you're having to go through this! But don't think about it that way... Even though you already have two healthy kids, sometimes pregnancies just don't go right. It takes so much for everything to perfectly come together at the same time! Stay strong for your children that you already have and try to remember that God has a plan for everything and a reason for everything to happen. :) I hope that you can work through this and hopefully one day get the baby that you and your husband want! Take it easy and just let yourself rest.

Fly*Above*Me 50 kids; Ocala, Florida 4789 posts
20th Nov '12

I totally know how you feel I lost my 3rd angel baby oct 27 and I was 11 weeks along. If it helps you can always message me. I had a D&C when I lost my 2nd angel baby. You just have to focus on the kids you have now. You will get your rainbow baby hang in there.

mommy to C, B and F 19 kids; 1 angel baby; Escondido, California 1175 posts
20th Nov '12

Thank you for all you prayers I'm just so lost and nervous about tomorrow but thank you all so much

♥ Felicia Marie 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Arizona 48 posts
21st Nov '12

I understand completely :( Me and my partner tried for 2 years with the baby we lost at 6 weeks 2 days ago :(



However, the way I am looking at it is: I've got a child already, and so do you. I'm SO thankful that I have her. All I have to do is look at her and feel better. At least this miscarriage this time I've already got a little one to hold.



With my first m/c 5 years ago they required a D&C. It was really quick, so don't worry! I wasn't in any pain(from the D&C), just the cramping from the m/c. Goodluck!!

mommy to C, B and F 19 kids; 1 angel baby; Escondido, California 1175 posts
21st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Felicia Marie Margaret:</b>" I understand completely :( Me and my partner tried for 2 years with the baby we lost at 6 weeks 2 days ... [snip!] ... It was really quick, so don't worry! I wasn't in any pain(from the D&C), just the cramping from the m/c. Goodluck!!"</blockquote>




Thank you

OmegaDucks! Japan 615 posts
21st Nov '12

I'm so sorry for your loss. I recently went through a loss and if you need someone to talk to that has been there or just someone to listen you can PM me. *hugs*

((-We Did It!-)) 1 child; 1 angel baby; Iowa 659 posts
21st Nov '12

My first pregnancy I thought I was almost 10 weeks but the baby had stopped growing at 7 weeks 3 days.. that was in 2007. I ended up having the D&C and was at the hospital no more than 2 hours. I had cramping off and on for a day or two.. some pretty nasty clotting as well. It's a hard thing to get over. I'm now on my second pregnancy (almost 17 weeks) and I still think about my Peanut Angel I lost in 2007. Sending hugs and prayers your way. Sounds like we're all here for you. :)

Ashley + 4! 36 kids; Valley Center, California 5198 posts
21st Nov '12

*hugs* he/she is with Everleigh now