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Positive-Momma 17 kids; Ohio 175 posts
21st Nov '12

We never really talked much about me being pregnant but now I have a baby bump and my hours were cut at work. Money wise we have been having a hard time but see what that has to do with rather we kill our child. I can not do that. I have one angel baby and missing her everyday. I will not go through with his wishes. I would rather do this alone.

£exaholic 2 kids; Colorado 20865 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Positive-Momma:" We never really talked much about me being pregnant but now I have a baby bump and my hours were cut ... [snip!] ... do that. I have one angel baby and missing her everyday. I will not go through with his wishes. I would rather do this alone."


wow, so you're dating him? assssshole. times a million.

Positive-Momma 17 kids; Ohio 175 posts
21st Nov '12

Highly upset. I love my baby. This is stressful.

Samantha Bengtson 3 kids; Fairmont, Minnesota 43 posts
21st Nov '12

WITH or WITHOUT him have this baby GIRL! You are strong, you can do this :) ... 18 weeks is way too late to be having an abortion IMO ! Good luck. I hope all goes good for you :) .

Positive-Momma 17 kids; Ohio 175 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Samantha Bengtson:" WITH or WITHOUT him have this baby GIRL! You are strong, you can do this :) ... 18 weeks is way too late to be having an abortion IMO ! Good luck. I hope all goes good for you :) ."


Thank you! just wish he would stop freaking out and get a clue

Katy Mundell 1 child; Georgia 20 posts
21st Nov '12

I had an abortion a few years ago and i regret it everyday, my baby daddy had asked and paid for my abortion and i was 15 at the time. I knew i wasnt ready to be a parent but when it happened i couldnt forgive myself for two years. I am pro choice but you need to make sure that its your decision and not his bc ultimately it is you who will have to live with this baby for the rest of your life, he doesnt have to. he can walk away but us mothers love our children too much to walk away. im sure you have an amazing SUPPORT system with your family and/or friends. i wish you the best and know you will make the right decision for you.



Plus, at 4.5 months, why would he ask for an abortion instead of adoption?

Ashley&Kai Due July 14; 1 child; Missouri 119 posts
21st Nov '12

I'm so sory he even asked you that. You can raise a baby on your own though. Every woman is strong enough. You sound like you already love your child and I wish the best for you :)

Ozzie & BamBam 17 kids; Houston, Texas 3906 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Positive-Momma:" My childs father asked me to get an abortion. I'm 18 weeks Friday and that really broke my heart."


You dont have to do it, It would have broke my heart too! Its sad that men do that though I had a friend go thru the same thing.

doors33 1 child; Tonawanda, New York 478 posts
21st Nov '12

He might just be scared of being a father... but that's still a really hurtful thing to say to you... was he supportive before this point?



By the way, here's a *hug*

Positive-Momma 17 kids; Ohio 175 posts
21st Nov '12

He never really talked about it to be supportive and he didnt say abortion.. He said "We both are not ready to be parents rights now, Melissa maybe it would be best to handle the situation...." which means? My heart is broken but I am keeping my baby.

Lacie Heethuis-Roy Due November 23; Caledonia, Michigan 441 posts
23rd Nov '12

forget him theres always adoption but sounds like u want it get rid of him if he wont be supportive

Positive-Momma 17 kids; Ohio 175 posts
24th Nov '12

I'd never give my baby up. I love this baby more then life. I want to be a mommy... Maybe he will change his mind or I wilol be leaving him...

Samantha & Khloe ♥ 1 child; British Columbia 140 posts
24th Nov '12

I would never get an aborrtion especially that late in pregnancy, id say f**k him.

sian marie Due May 27; 4 kids; Bridgend, United Kingdom 129 posts
24th Nov '12

my ex done the same thing thats why he is now a ex and im having this baby on my own head up it will all be ok in the end xx