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Ugh so pissed at myself (vent) Alfies Mama Due February 26; 1 child; Gilroy, California 2603 posts
21st Nov '12

I can't believe how stupid I am. I have been hooking up with a guy for the past 3 weeks. Well last night we had the night off together and I ended up meeting up with him. Well long story short we hooked up at his friends house without a condom. I feel like an idiot. He pulled out but how do we know he did it in time. I'm not on birth control and he knows it. I keep track of ovulation and I'm pretty sure I wasn't ovulating but still it freaks me out. Plan B may be on my list tomorrow when I go to the store. I'm just pissed at myself. Sorry I had to vent.

Tanya-Michelle 'Wench' Mo Due October 28; 18 kids; United Kingdom 1407 posts
21st Nov '12

Ahhh these things happen I wouldn't stress too much, I would go and have an STI check tho just to be on the safe side x

lynnsaymarie 1 child; 1 angel baby; Buffalo, New York 2553 posts
status 21st Nov '12

It happens. Go grab some plan B. Best of luck

Alfies Mama Due February 26; 1 child; Gilroy, California 2603 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Tanya-Michelle 'Wench' Mo:" Ahhh these things happen I wouldn't stress too much, I would go and have an STI check tho just to be on the safe side x"

Yeah I plan on getting checked. Im always so careful and last night it just happened.

Alfies Mama Due February 26; 1 child; Gilroy, California 2603 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Lynnsay B:" It happens. Go grab some plan B. Best of luck"


I need all the luck right now lol We had a conversation a couple of days ago about birth control and what i would do if I happened to get pregnant.Plan B it is tomorrow.

MrsWilliams154 Due June 24; 17 kids; Oxford, United Kingdom 1094 posts
21st Nov '12

STI check and Plan B if you're not up for more babies :)
Ovulation means nothing - my husband and I used a condom and I didn't think I was ovulating........ Here I am 9 weeks gone.

Alfies Mama Due February 26; 1 child; Gilroy, California 2603 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting MrsWilliams154:" STI check and Plan B if you're not up for more babies :) Ovulation means nothing - my husband and I used a condom and I didn't think I was ovulating........ Here I am 9 weeks gone."


The STI check will be scheduled for next week. I don't want to freak myself out. He said he pulled out before he came but I know that doesn't mean it's guaranteed I can't get pregnant.

MrsWilliams154 Due June 24; 17 kids; Oxford, United Kingdom 1094 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Alfies Mama:" The STI check will be scheduled for next week. I don't want to freak myself out. He said he pulled out before he came but I know that doesn't mean it's guaranteed I can't get pregnant."


Pulling out means nothing - pre-ejaculate can contain live sperm too.



Good luck :)

Alfies Mama Due February 26; 1 child; Gilroy, California 2603 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting MrsWilliams154:" Pulling out means nothing - pre-ejaculate can contain live sperm too. Good luck :)"


I know pulling out doesn't mean anything, just trying to make myself feel better lol I just feel really stupid. Thanks for the Luck :)

That girl Amber +2 2 kids; California 6981 posts
21st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MrsWilliams154:</b>" Pulling out means nothing - pre-ejaculate can contain live sperm too. Good luck :)"</blockquote>




The only way precum has sperm would be if he recently got off and didnt pee before sex again

talexys 1 child; Ontario 1138 posts
21st Nov '12

Yes there is pre e*********n...and yes you can get pregnant...however its not as likely.....but Id still go get plan B if your worried.
My boyfriend pulled out for 3 years and it worked up until last year...lol..soo it happens.

MrsWilliams154 Due June 24; 17 kids; Oxford, United Kingdom 1094 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting Amberchik78:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MrsWilliams154:</b>" Pulling out means nothing - pre-ejaculate ... [snip!] ... luck :)"</blockquote> The only way precum has sperm would be if he recently got off and didnt pee before sex again"


A few friends in school got pregnant this way and when I accompanied a few of them to see a doctor the doctor confirmed that pre-ejaculate can contain live sperm if the male is healthy.

That girl Amber +2 2 kids; California 6981 posts
23rd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MrsWilliams154:</b>" A few friends in school got pregnant this way and when I accompanied a few of them to see a doctor the doctor confirmed that pre-ejaculate can contain live sperm if the male is healthy."</blockquote>




Yeah.... Ok.