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Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 22368 posts
21st Nov '12

what did she do to get fired? I would go apply.

C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting .B.:" what did she do to get fired? I would go apply."


because, the parents were complaining about her.
It's a daycare

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" because, the parents were complaining about her. It's a daycare"

Oh well damn. :/ What were the complaints?

C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting ℳary ℐane:" Oh well damn. :/ What were the complaints? "


she didn't tell me that.



she just told me the parents, were complaining

ExpectoPatromum Due December 5 (girl); TTC since Oct 2013; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Cardiff, X, United Kingdom 3439 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" they treated her like shit..."


It seems as if you already know and I think you're a really good person for showing consideration to your friend and her feelings.

Also, if ever you're faced with a decision, flip a coin. If you're hoping it lands on the choice you put with "heads" (or tails) then your mind is already made up :D

C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting ashleyxdisaster:" It seems as if you already know and I think you're a really good person for showing consideration ... [snip!] ... flip a coin. If you're hoping it lands on the choice you put with "heads" (or tails) then your mind is already made up :D"


lol, your right.



a friendship means more to me...then a little job.



I know, I can get a job somewhere else.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" UMM that has fuck all to do with the Employer. Hell, they did the right thing by firing her. If more than one parent was complaining she obviously wasn't cut out for the job."

agreed.

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" because, the parents were complaining about her. It's a daycare"


Yeah then that's her fault and you shouldn't feel bad at all by applying. Just don't tell them she's your friend :p

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 15566 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" because, the parents were complaining about her. It's a daycare"

If the Parents are complaining, then she needed to be fired. Parents would have started pulling their kids out and the business would be losing money.

The Doctor 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59959 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" lol, your right. a friendship means more to me...then a little job. I know, I can get a job somewhere else."


Why would you taking a job there ruin your friendship?!

The Doctor 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59959 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" Right. I must be old because that is seriously an immature mindset."


It's immature, to me, to need a job, not apply because your friend used to work there.... and then use that as an excuse to not apply.



Sorry, OP. I think your mom is right on this one.

C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting The Doctor:" Why would you taking a job there ruin your friendship?!"


because, she was upset & crying that she just lost her job.



& that would just be fucked up of me, to go & take the job she just got fired for

The Doctor 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59959 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" because, she was upset & crying that she just lost her job. & that would just be fucked up of me, to go & take the job she just got fired for"


While I feel for her that she lost her job, if she's your friend, she should realize that you needing a job has nothing to do with your friendship.

C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting The Doctor:" It's immature, to me, to need a job, not apply because your friend used to work there.... and then use that as an excuse to not apply. Sorry, OP. I think your mom is right on this one."


I understand, where you are coming from



but, she is basically my one & ONLY friend....& I can't loose her over a job.



I know, I can find a job somewhere else.

Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 22368 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" because, she was upset & crying that she just lost her job. & that would just be fucked up of me, to go & take the job she just got fired for"


She was clearly doing something wrong. It isn't like she got fired for nothing.