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C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting The Doctor:" Why would you taking a job there ruin your friendship?!"


because, she was upset & crying that she just lost her job.



& that would just be fucked up of me, to go & take the job she just got fired for

Nathan Young 2 kids; Syracuse, New York 57578 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" because, she was upset & crying that she just lost her job. & that would just be fucked up of me, to go & take the job she just got fired for"


While I feel for her that she lost her job, if she's your friend, she should realize that you needing a job has nothing to do with your friendship.

C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting The Doctor:" It's immature, to me, to need a job, not apply because your friend used to work there.... and then use that as an excuse to not apply. Sorry, OP. I think your mom is right on this one."


I understand, where you are coming from



but, she is basically my one & ONLY friend....& I can't loose her over a job.



I know, I can find a job somewhere else.

Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 21472 posts
status 21st Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" because, she was upset & crying that she just lost her job. & that would just be fucked up of me, to go & take the job she just got fired for"


She was clearly doing something wrong. It isn't like she got fired for nothing.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting .B.:" She was clearly doing something wrong. It isn't like she got fired for nothing. "

:idea: :!: :!:
It's f**king gross that it was from a daycare :? Like, I'd be disgusted with my friend.

Nathan Young 2 kids; Syracuse, New York 57578 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" I understand, where you are coming from but, she is basically my one & ONLY friend....& I can't loose her over a job. I know, I can find a job somewhere else."


How long have you been looking?



If it's been a while, I would apply. I really do not think a friendship can be that strong if it gets ruined because one person got a job.

user banned 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting The Doctor:" How long have you been looking? If it's been a while, I would apply. I really do not think a friendship can be that strong if it gets ruined because one person got a job."

Me either.



I can see her maybe getting upset. But, if she were to cut you out of her life? That's not a real friend.

C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting The Doctor:" How long have you been looking? If it's been a while, I would apply. I really do not think a friendship can be that strong if it gets ruined because one person got a job."


2 months.



but, it's harder to find a job by the holidays.

C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" :idea: :!: :!: It's f**king gross that it was from a daycare :? Like, I'd be disgusted with my friend."


I got fired from a daycare...:oops:



but, I was happy when I got fired.

Nathan Young 2 kids; Syracuse, New York 57578 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" 2 months. but, it's harder to find a job by the holidays."


I absolutely disagree. Tons of companies NEED extra people to work holidays.

Blythe. 1 child; Indiana 21472 posts
status 21st Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" I got fired from a daycare...:oops: but, I was happy when I got fired."


WTF

Crystal 3 kids; Hephzibah, Georgia 14991 posts
status 21st Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" 2 months. but, it's harder to find a job by the holidays."

Um no. Holidays are easier to find jobs. The companies need the extra help for the high demand of products.

C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting The Doctor:" I absolutely disagree. Tons of companies NEED extra people to work holidays."


not by where I live.. lol

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting The Doctor:" I absolutely disagree. Tons of companies NEED extra people to work holidays."


Yeah. Best time to get seasonal work and try to leave a good impression so maybe you're hired on full time.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" I got fired from a daycare...:oops: but, I was happy when I got fired."

Why were you fired?