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over reacting? Platypus Due March 17; 1 child; Massachusetts 2627 posts
21st Nov '12

Long story short SO quit his job a month ago (he has a new one now) but I have basically been supporting him for this whole time. Today he used my credit card to get a bus pass, which i said was okay. But he decided to buy 8 dollars worth of junk food on it too, which i NEVER said was okay. And i'm pissed. I just went shopping, so it's not like we dont have food! Anyway, he's also been learning to drive and got in a little fender bender, which is now going to make my insurance sky rocket.. I'm just really pissed. I feel like he's taking a toll on me financially. I told him we are broken off until he can fix the damage he's done.. Also, we (technically I do cause its in my name) owe 230 dollars for the cable and internet... I'm pretty much starting to slowly drown in bills. =-/

bloopbloop♥ 1 child; Illinois 13682 posts
21st Nov '12

Well if he has a new job I think you are. Do you not share the money? I'm sure he would help you if you were in need as well..

*B & D Mommy* Due January 19; 2 kids; Illinois 15946 posts
21st Nov '12

How long have you been together? I mean 8 dollars isn't that big of a deal. Do you live together?

E'M Shikari Due March 10 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Preston, United Kingdom 1747 posts
21st Nov '12

I'd be annoyed. Not because of how much it was, but because he didn't ask.

Jeronimo 2 kids; California 1436 posts
21st Nov '12

I think the stressed is making you over react to something that probably isn't really that big of a deal. And what does "broken off" mean?

Platypus Due March 17; 1 child; Massachusetts 2627 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Ellie Shikari:" I'd be annoyed. Not because of how much it was, but because he didn't ask. "


exactly. I feel like he thinks he's entitled. y'know? he's just causing me so many problems.