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Momma +2 Girls 2 kids; Indiana 3612 posts
21st Nov '12

Wow that is terrible. We had 4 people around here pass away this morning due to drinking and driving/speeding. So sad to know both these, and tons of others, could have easily been avoided.

Mrs.O! 18 kids; your moms ass, HI, United States 21530 posts
status 21st Nov '12
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" Op if your are heartless then I have a blackhole where my heart should be because all I can think is ... [snip!] ... make the right choices at her age so IMHO they are just as much to blame for what happened at the 16 year old. Maybe more so."


i kind of agree with you...it's like, we ALL know what teenagers who are dating will do if you let them sleep in the same room...it's like they wanted her to get pregnant at 14!!..these kids were obviously not taught to make good choices since they were out of school(it happened at 1:40 in the afternoon and school doesn't get out until 2:20:roll:)..



I'll admit that I was no angel at 16 but I know if my friends wanted to drink at that age I was driving them(I didn't think drinking at 16 was a good idea) because I didn't want their lives or the lives of people we didn't know in danger...I just figured that was common sense!!!...and I didn't tell people about my sex life with my now husband...it just wasn't something I felt others needed to know about.

Mrs.O! 18 kids; your moms ass, HI, United States 21530 posts
status 21st Nov '12
Quoting Momma +2 Girls:" Wow that is terrible. We had 4 people around here pass away this morning due to drinking and driving/speeding. So sad to know both these, and tons of others, could have easily been avoided."


exactly!

Momma +2 Girls 2 kids; Indiana 3612 posts
21st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mrs.O!:</b>" i kind of agree with you...it's like, we ALL know what teenagers who are dating will do if you let ... [snip!] ... I didn't tell people about my sex life with my now husband...it just wasn't something I felt others needed to know about."</blockquote>



I was thinking along those lines too... and what 1inpink2inblue said.

*B & D Mommy* Due January 19; 2 kids; Illinois 16047 posts
status 21st Nov '12
Quoting Mrs.O!:" i kind of agree with you...it's like, we ALL know what teenagers who are dating will do if you let ... [snip!] ... I didn't tell people about my sex life with my now husband...it just wasn't something I felt others needed to know about."


Neither did I. However I'm sure this kid wasn't thinking straight AT ALL when he wrote that.

☠Jenniefahhh 1 child; Djibouti 70787 posts
21st Nov '12

Yeah.. I find that weird too. I'd be pissed if I was her mom and he was posting about them having sex.



Is he getting arrested for it?

Mrs.O! 18 kids; your moms ass, HI, United States 21530 posts
status 21st Nov '12
Quoting ☠Jenniefahhh:" Yeah.. I find that weird too. I'd be pissed if I was her mom and he was posting about them having sex. Is he getting arrested for it?"


it turns out this was the other passenger but the guy driving is most likely going to get away with it..you know how the community is down here, had it not been her friend her parents would most likely press charges if the state hasn't already but I highly doubt it's gonna happen...it still bothers me that these kids knew their friend was drinking and he had a good mile to slow down before that accident happened and they let it happen or even got in the car!...

☠Jenniefahhh 1 child; Djibouti 70787 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Mrs.O!:" it turns out this was the other passenger but the guy driving is most likely going to get away with ... [snip!] ... drinking and he had a good mile to slow down before that accident happened and they let it happen or even got in the car!..."


Wow. I can't even imagine what her family is going through. I hope he gets busted. He was underage drinking and driving and he killed someone. Frikken scary.

Miracle Mother 808 Due April 7 (twins); Japan 4 posts
21st Nov '12

First of all you need to get you facts straight. Her boyfriend was in the back seat while another boy drove drunk. She was in the passengers side. Yes you are heartless to talk down on a relationship especially of one of a deceased! Please gain the correct information before you post anything. He did not kill his girlfriend and he was not driving.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Miracle Mother 808:" First of all you need to get you facts straight. Her boyfriend was in the back seat while another boy ... [snip!] ... deceased! Please gain the correct information before you post anything. He did not kill his girlfriend and he was not driving."

Yeah, that is fucked up. :/



Who are you? lol

Miracle Mother 808 Due April 7 (twins); Japan 4 posts
21st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" Yeah, that is fucked up. :/ Who are you? lol"</blockquote>




I am a family member of the girl (Kawehi) that died. Yes I am sad that they made the wrong choices but in times like this the only option is to mourn not add in any 2 cents.

user banned (boy); 2 kids; Fucking, Austria 36337 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Miracle Mother 808:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" Yeah, that is fucked up. :/ Who ... [snip!] ... died. Yes I am sad that they made the wrong choices but in times like this the only option is to mourn not add in any 2 cents."

So sorry for your loss :(

Miracle Mother 808 Due April 7 (twins); Japan 4 posts
21st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ℳary ℐane:</b>" So sorry for your loss :("</blockquote>




Thank you! :/

alohalexi Japan 1 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Mrs.O!:" So yesterday afternoon there was a very tragic accident because a 16 year old boy decided to drink and ... [snip!] ... happened had he actually made it to the very busy main road?...so many more lives could've been lost... am I heartless?"





the boy who posted this on her memorial page was not the driver. the driver is a 16 year old on life support at the moment. her boyfriend who posted that on her memorial page is only 14 years old, was in the back seat of the car, and was not drinking. the driver (16 year old boy) was the only one drinking.
Mrs.O! 18 kids; your moms ass, HI, United States 21530 posts
status 21st Nov '12
Quoting Miracle Mother 808:" First of all you need to get you facts straight. Her boyfriend was in the back seat while another boy ... [snip!] ... deceased! Please gain the correct information before you post anything. He did not kill his girlfriend and he was not driving."

okay, it doesn't change the fact that these kids decided to get in a car with someone who was drinking and most likely drinking themselves...thats all I honestly need to know. had it been anyone else in any other state I'm sure I'd feel the same exact way "how dare kids whether or not they were driving the vehicle allow this to happen"..I know a lot of people who live here and know those kids family and still have no sympathy for them...I feel bad for her family, I truly do..I feel bad for all of their families..it wasn't their fault their children made a horrible and tragic decision.