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what would you do paula h 1 child; New Mexico 1452 posts
21st Nov '12

My and my SO are fighting right he want nothing to with me or my son so i don't have family here were im at would you just leave and take your son to go live with a friend or i can leave him my son with my mother in law till i can get on my fit in a different city

XxWhite_RosexX 1 child; United Kingdom 1957 posts
21st Nov '12

i would never leave my child anywhere

✿LilyBear09✿ 1 child; Oregon 5006 posts
21st Nov '12

Don't EVER leave your child behind. That can come back and bite you in the butt.

Jillbill4 2 kids; 584 posts
21st Nov '12

why would you leave your child?

khigh 1 child; Fort Sill, Oklahoma 8101 posts
21st Nov '12

There's not enough information to give you a good answer.

paula h 1 child; New Mexico 1452 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Jillbill4:" why would you leave your child?"


because i dont have any where to take him and if i do i want be able to take really anything

user banned Due November 7; 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
21st Nov '12

Uh........



I just don't know where to start

Damien*Dex*Jaidyn's Momma 18 kids; Pennsylvania 1535 posts
21st Nov '12

Never leave your child. That will bite you in the ass when you try to get them back. If your SO and MIL really wanted to they could say you abandoned the child.

lacTAYtor. ☮ 3 kids; North Carolina 4496 posts
21st Nov '12

I could never leave my child behind. Ever.

Brandi Eastman 2 kids; Youngsville, Pennsylvania 1452 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting ✿LilyBear09✿:" Don't EVER leave your child behind. That can come back and bite you in the butt."


DITTO!!!
If there is no custody order in place, either parent can take the child anywhere they want with or without the other concent or even knowledge.



I took LO from Hawaii to PA without him even knowing till he got back....

£exaholic 2 kids; Colorado 20865 posts
21st Nov '12

Never, ever leave your child. Sad. There are shelters for women & children.

paula h 1 child; New Mexico 1452 posts
21st Nov '12

I have no where to go I live with my mother in law right now my SO wants me to leave him alone and never talk to him i have no family no where to the only place i can go is to a friend 2 hours away i have no car no money and i trying to decide if i should pack both of are stuff and leave or leave my son till i can get a job house and come get him

paula h 1 child; New Mexico 1452 posts
21st Nov '12
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✿LilyBear09✿ 1 child; Oregon 5006 posts
21st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting paula h:</b>" I have no where to go I live with my mother in law right now my SO wants me to leave him alone and never ... [snip!] ... and i trying to decide if i should pack both of are stuff and leave or leave my son till i can get a job house and come get him"</blockquote>




You have other options, you just have to get creative. Sell some of your things and get enough money for 2 bus tickets to your friends. Call the local police and ask for shelter information. Ask your friend to come get the two of you...Pay her with money from the items you sell... See, just think. You will find a solution to your problem. DON'T LEAVE YOUR CHILD!!

paula h 1 child; New Mexico 1452 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting ✿LilyBear09✿:" <blockquote><b>Quoting paula h:</b>" I have no where to go I live with my mother in ... [snip!] ... with money from the items you sell... See, just think. You will find a solution to your problem. DON'T LEAVE YOUR CHILD!!"


I have a ride to my friend s I dont have a phone and i dont have anything really to sell im trying to decide what best for him and me just packing up and leaving with nothing really doesn't sit will with me I dont want to leave my son I just so lost on what i should do