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MY SO IS SO HOOKED ON POT Britt_marz Due April 9 (boy); Arizona 15 posts
21st Nov '12

Okay so my SO and I have been together for 2 years and we are now 20 wks prego with our son. We are a very happy couple but like all we have our drama and fights and get over them quick. But we have recently been in some finacial stress with moving into a new home and cars breaking down. So we are strapped. Mind you we do not have ANYTHING for our son yet and im already halfway through the pregnancy. Well my man Smokes pot and has since i met him i did too before i was prego. but now that im sober i would like to keep it that way. He is spending way too much money on it and is acting like it is not a problem i dont know what to do... I dont mind if he smoke i just want him to cut back so we can buy the things we need for our son. It just hurts me.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
21st Nov '12

have you talked to him about it?

heygirlheyyy♥ 1 child; Iowa 1303 posts
21st Nov '12

Have you asked him why he smokes so much? Is e bringing in all the money? And at 20 weeks I had nothing for the baby, you're fine.

Britt_marz Due April 9 (boy); Arizona 15 posts
21st Nov '12

yea and he doesnt seem to think its a problem and then gets all defensive ...

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23030 posts
21st Nov '12

The only problem that I have is the fact he seems to be picking pot over your financial situation. It seems from the little bit you told us that you are struggling

S & S *20weeks* Due December 29 (boy); 16 kids; Larouche, Quebec 1123 posts
21st Nov '12

I wish we lived closer, I have some newborn stuff that I don't need.



I'd talk to him about it.

Cap'n Obvious 65 kids; Benton, Kentucky 1330 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Britt_marz:" Okay so my SO and I have been together for 2 years and we are now 20 wks prego with our son. We are a ... [snip!] ... to do... I dont mind if he smoke i just want him to cut back so we can buy the things we need for our son. It just hurts me."


You can't be "hooked" on pot. You just need to talk to him about spending so much on it.

Britt_marz Due April 9 (boy); Arizona 15 posts
21st Nov '12

He does bring in all the money but i do work part time but i use all my money to pay bills never blow it on crap for me ....

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Cap'n Obvious:" You can't be "hooked" on pot. You just need to talk to him about spending so much on it."


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Cap'n Obvious 65 kids; Benton, Kentucky 1330 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Britt_marz:" He does bring in all the money but i do work part time but i use all my money to pay bills never blow it on crap for me ...."


I'm assuming you mean needs and not crap? Otherwise you'd be just as guilty as he is as far as money spending goes.

Britt_marz Due April 9 (boy); Arizona 15 posts
21st Nov '12

Thank you ladies I will talk to him more about it..

heygirlheyyy♥ 1 child; Iowa 1303 posts
21st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Britt_marz:</b>" He does bring in all the money but i do work part time but i use all my money to pay bills never blow it on crap for me ...."</blockquote>




Well explain to him he's going to have to cut down as it gets closer to your due date. Babies aren't cheap.

S & S *20weeks* Due December 29 (boy); 16 kids; Larouche, Quebec 1123 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Cap'n Obvious:" I'm assuming you mean needs and not crap? Otherwise you'd be just as guilty as he is as far as money spending goes."


I think you misunderstood or maybe I did....but she means that she spends her own money on bills and never spends her money on what she wants or luxuries.

Britt_marz Due April 9 (boy); Arizona 15 posts
21st Nov '12

Well sure but I will and always have pushed myself as far as i can without getting things that i need because i can not afford them... and i make it work but its hard. .... Weed is not a need, and $200 on it that didnt even last 2 wks is CRAZY ! So understand that this is where im coming from. Let me tell you something I have nothing for myself all that i do have has holes and does not fit anymore but i make it last so we can get by and pay our bills.

Britt_marz Due April 9 (boy); Arizona 15 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting heygirlheyyy♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Britt_marz:</b>" He does bring in all the money but i do work ... [snip!] ... Well explain to him he's going to have to cut down as it gets closer to your due date. Babies aren't cheap."


Thanks girl :)