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BeccaSauraus 1 child; Baton Rouge, Louisiana 1864 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Britt_marz:" Well sure but I will and always have pushed myself as far as i can without getting things that i need ... [snip!] ... nothing for myself all that i do have has holes and does not fit anymore but i make it last so we can get by and pay our bills."

There is no way he's spending $200 on weed in 2 weeks. 200 will get you an oz and a half of good and like 6 oz of schwag. And not even Snoop Dogg smokes that much weed.

~*Flibbertigibbet*~ Helena, Montana 821 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting heygirlheyyy♥:" Have you asked him why he smokes so much? Is e bringing in all the money? And at 20 weeks I had nothing for the baby, you're fine."


Doesn't matter if he's bringing in all the money. He should be prioritizing and not spending it on weed if he can't afford it. My fiance brings in all the money right now because I had to stop working during my pregnancy. You bet your sweet bippy that if he can't afford cigarettes or beer, he cuts back because our baby and our survival is more important than his wants. We both make sacrifices so that she has everything that she needs.



As for not having anything at 20 weeks, I didn't either. However, it is stressful when you're getting down to the wire and have nothing. Second-hand places are great for getting things that are like new. We got our Pack N' Play with the bassinet insert second-hand for $20. You can also get gear like strollers (but I wouldn't get the carseat or infant bucket second-hand...you just never know) and high chairs. Also try craigslist for clothing. Lots of people sell big lots of clothing in specific sizes for cheap.



You can't get hooked on weed. It's not addictive. However, the need to zone out and not deal with life can be. He needs to get his priorities straight. What's going to happen when you have the baby and he wants his weed, but you're on your last diaper? Are you going to have to fashion one out of paper towels and duct tape? He needs to wake up to reality. It's not just about him anymore.

BeccaSauraus 1 child; Baton Rouge, Louisiana 1864 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting RainbowDash:" Doesn't matter if he's bringing in all the money. He should be prioritizing and not spending it on weed ... [snip!] ... to have to fashion one out of paper towels and duct tape? He needs to wake up to reality. It's not just about him anymore."


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Britt_marz Due April 9; Arizona 15 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting BeccaSauraus:" There is no way he's spending $200 on weed in 2 weeks. 200 will get you an oz and a half of good and like 6 oz of schwag. And not even Snoop Dogg smokes that much weed."


His boy hooked him up for 2 oz thats what he spent i wouldnt be on here talking bull shit ... Not even playin

Britt_marz Due April 9; Arizona 15 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting RainbowDash:" Doesn't matter if he's bringing in all the money. He should be prioritizing and not spending it on weed ... [snip!] ... to have to fashion one out of paper towels and duct tape? He needs to wake up to reality. It's not just about him anymore."


Thank you i will look at some places in town and check out craigslist ....
I agree with you 100 % and hope he will get his head straight ... because yay it is stressing me out.

BeccaSauraus 1 child; Baton Rouge, Louisiana 1864 posts
21st Nov '12

2 oz would last way more than 2 weeks. That's 60 bowls. If he can't make 2 oz last a few months he needs to chill the f**k out so his tolerance lowers. And I just realized that I smoked entirely too much weed in college.