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I wish everyone would mind their own business. Rafael's Mommy ♥ Texas 764 posts
21st Nov '12

Everybody stays messaging me and his family about how my best friend died. Why can't people just be sorry that he's gone? Why does everyone want to know all the details? Why can't people mind their own fucking business and leave us alone!!

I'm actually a virgin Due June 9; 1 child; Oregon 18466 posts
21st Nov '12

I'm sorry for yoyr loss.. but if they know the gu y... I'd want to know too.

Rafael's Mommy ♥ Texas 764 posts
21st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting P.S I'm pregnant ♥:</b>" I'm sorry for yoyr loss.. but if they know the gu y... I'd want to know too."</blockquote>




We've let everyone that was close to him know what happened and they got to come see him in the hospital before his family took him off of life support. It's just the completely random people that barely knew him or didn't know him at all that are bothering me.

ma ♥ 1 child; California 63053 posts
21st Nov '12

It's only natural to wonder how somebody you somehow knew died. Even if it was years ago. Kids I went to highschool with have passed away, & I'm always curious as to what happened.
Anyway, I'm sorry for your loss :( Stay strong!!

user banned California 8675 posts
21st Nov '12

Cant you just text them back and tell them you and your dh dobt want to get into details and that you are mourning. Sorry for your loss hun.

Rafael's Mommy ♥ Texas 764 posts
21st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ma ♥:</b>" It's only natural to wonder how somebody you somehow knew died. Even if it was years ago. Kids I went ... [snip!] ... with have passed away, & I'm always curious as to what happened. Anyway, I'm sorry for your loss :( Stay strong!!"</blockquote>




Thank you <3

user banned California 8675 posts
21st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ma ♥:</b>" It's only natural to wonder how somebody you somehow knew died. Even if it was years ago. Kids I went ... [snip!] ... with have passed away, & I'm always curious as to what happened. Anyway, I'm sorry for your loss :( Stay strong!!"</blockquote>




Ikr I would want to know too.

Cattails TTC since Oct 2011; 64 kids; North Carolina 857 posts
21st Nov '12

I know it's difficult, but people are curious. Sometimes it's just best to make a public status that gives some details to end the messages, add that contacting you is not preferred. Sorry for your loss.