Try for baby #3 or no..... Mommy of TWO 2 kids; Tualatin, Oregon 45 posts
21st Nov '12

Long story short, I am 21 with two kids. My son is 3 and my daughter is 1. They are from the same father, I am now with someone new. My high school sweetheart! He and my kids are madly in love with eachother. He is amazing with them. My daughter calls him dada, and my son chooses to be with him rather than his dad. Anyways... He really wants to have his "own" baby. I love being a mother. I just know that being a mom is what I was meant to be. So I honestly have no problems having more kids. I want 4 or 5. But I turned 21 in May and I want to have a lil fun. I got pregnant with my son at 17, so my teen years were gone... Not complaining, but now that my kids are at a age that I can leave them for a couple hours I want to go out. Or have a glass of wine... Sounds kinda selfish typing it all out right now. Im choosing having fun over a baby. But thats how I feel.... What do you mommies think???

JustDucky 2 kids; Connecticut 1118 posts
21st Nov '12

No reason to rush! Take your time and have fun! You have PLENTY of time to have more children!

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
21st Nov '12

So young to have potentially 3 kids. Wait a few years.

KristynaV 1 child; POWELL, Tennessee 94 posts
21st Nov '12

its not selfish for u to want to have a little fun there is plenty of time for you to have more babies!

castaway 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 18092 posts
21st Nov '12

I would wait till I got married, personally. If this guy goes away, being a single mom of 3 under the age of 22 would really suck. At least if you wait till he serious about being with you, you have more assurance. Most 21 year old guys don't crave babies, so I would be cautious. You have plenty of child bearing years ahead of you.

wigglewaddle 2 kids; Wichita, Kansas 2096 posts
21st Nov '12

If you think this guy isn't going anywhere, there's no rush and I guess if you do think he's going somewhere you shouldn't be having a baby, lol! I would wait personally, but he might be a lil jealous and want a lil bean of his own. I would just discuss it and see if there's any reason to rush?

Nomo 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30487 posts
21st Nov '12

Jjst wait a little bit lol trust me. Have some fun turn 22 and then get pregnant

мɑkɑnɑni ~*~, FL, United States 63129 posts
status 21st Nov '12

Why the rush? You're quite young yet.

Mommy of TWO 2 kids; Tualatin, Oregon 45 posts
21st Nov '12

I dont see the rush, but he really wants a baby! Love being pregnant, love the labor, and love being a mom. But I kinda think its to soon also. Just want to have fun. Then be a mommy again... :D