Try for baby #3 or no..... Mommy of TWO 2 kids; Tualatin, Oregon 45 posts21st Nov '12
Long story short, I am 21 with two kids. My son is 3 and my daughter is 1. They are from the same father, I am now with someone new. My high school sweetheart! He and my kids are madly in love with eachother. He is amazing with them. My daughter calls him dada, and my son chooses to be with him rather than his dad. Anyways... He really wants to have his "own" baby. I love being a mother. I just know that being a mom is what I was meant to be. So I honestly have no problems having more kids. I want 4 or 5. But I turned 21 in May and I want to have a lil fun. I got pregnant with my son at 17, so my teen years were gone... Not complaining, but now that my kids are at a age that I can leave them for a couple hours I want to go out. Or have a glass of wine... Sounds kinda selfish typing it all out right now. Im choosing having fun over a baby. But thats how I feel.... What do you mommies think???
JustDucky 2 kids; Connecticut 1118 posts21st Nov '12
No reason to rush! Take your time and have fun! You have PLENTY of time to have more children!
user banned Due November 7; 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts21st Nov '12
So young to have potentially 3 kids. Wait a few years.
KristynaV 1 child; POWELL, Tennessee 94 posts21st Nov '12
its not selfish for u to want to have a little fun there is plenty of time for you to have more babies!
castaway 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 17787 posts21st Nov '12
I would wait till I got married, personally. If this guy goes away, being a single mom of 3 under the age of 22 would really s**k. At least if you wait till he serious about being with you, you have more assurance. Most 21 year old guys don't crave babies, so I would be cautious. You have plenty of child bearing years ahead of you.
wigglewaddle 2 kids; Wichita, Kansas 2056 posts21st Nov '12
If you think this guy isn't going anywhere, there's no rush and I guess if you do think he's going somewhere you shouldn't be having a baby, lol! I would wait personally, but he might be a lil jealous and want a lil bean of his own. I would just discuss it and see if there's any reason to rush?
☮ Phuket 4 kids; Mueang Phuket, Thailand 30468 posts21st Nov '12
Jjst wait a little bit lol trust me. Have some fun turn 22 and then get pregnant
❄ ☃ ❄ Florida 59158 postsstatus 21st Nov '12
Why the rush? You're quite young yet.