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I LOVE HIM BUT HE'S GONE OFF SEX!!!! Tyannemom2kids 2 kids; Florida 278 posts
21st Nov '12

I'am 20yrs old my Fiance and i have two wonderful kid's together. but our sex life has gone wrong since the birth of our youngest child. we used to have sex four times a week but the last time he fucked me was about three weeks ago his totally gone off sex!!!!! i could feel like having it while we are in bed 2gether and he will turn me down saying hunny I'm not in the mood right now tomo but that never comes this leaves me upset and confused. :(

Kimber-lily Due September 27; 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
21st Nov '12

... Lucky.
I have the opposite problem in my relationship. I don't want the sex, my SO does..

.free. 2 kids; Arkansas 36040 posts
21st Nov '12

I mean...shame on him for not wanting to jump your bones every freaking night, right?



:roll:



You've got two kids now. Shit happens.

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Oceanside, CA, United States 112313 posts
status 21st Nov '12

Is he depressed or stressed out? Men arent that much different from women in terms of sex. If we're depressed, stressed, we dont feel appreciated or that we turn our partner on we wont want to have sex.

bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 71777 posts
21st Nov '12

Does he work? maybe he's tired.....

Pey and Trista's mommy 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42502 posts
21st Nov '12

Communication, communication, communication! Tell him how you feel and see what is going on with him.

That Girl. 2 kids; Florida 4109 posts
21st Nov '12

Sounds like my dh

ThatsAlotaNuts Australia 2311 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" ... Lucky. I have the opposite problem in my relationship. I don't want the sex, my SO does.. "


me too!
but i have some serious issues with my vagina.
sex always hurts, thought i might have endomitriosis but its been like this since before LO was born.
DH is a total horn dog so i have to put up with it almost every day.

Tyannemom2kids 2 kids; Florida 278 posts
21st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:</b>" Is he depressed or stressed out? Men arent that much different from women in terms of sex. If we're depressed, ... [snip!] ... terms of sex. If we're depressed, stressed, we dont feel appreciated or that we turn our partner on we wont want to have sex."</blockquote>



no he is perfectly fine he just being an a*****e

castaway 2 kids; Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania 18092 posts
21st Nov '12

My husband has been wanting some once maybe twice a week, and I think he'd be fine without it at all but does it to keep me happy because he is insanely stressed and works too much.



Guys can't fake it if they aren't in the mood like a lady. Maybe something is stressing him out.

Tyannemom2kids 2 kids; Florida 278 posts
21st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting bia.:</b>" Does he work? maybe he's tired....."</blockquote>



yes he does work but he gets plenty of sleep

Kimber-lily Due September 27; 4 kids; Nova Scotia 28962 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Tyannemom2kids:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:</b>" Is he depressed or stressed out? ... [snip!] ... that we turn our partner on we wont want to have sex."</blockquote> no he is perfectly fine he just being an a*****e"


Not wanting to have sex all the time doesn't make someone an a*****e,
maybe you're annoying and in turn you are the a*****e?

Tyannemom2kids 2 kids; Florida 278 posts
21st Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:</b>" Communication, communication, communication! Tell him how you feel and see what is going on with him."</blockquote>



I've talked with him its no good comes in one ear goes out the other.

bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 71777 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Tyannemom2kids:" <blockquote><b>Quoting bia.:</b>" Does he work? maybe he's tired....."</blockquote> yes he does work but he gets plenty of sleep"


Just because he gets plenty of sleep doesn't mean he's not tired....

Pey and Trista's mommy 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Houston, Texas 42502 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Tyannemom2kids:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mel & a girl named Pey:</b>" Communication, communication, communication! ... [snip!] ... and see what is going on with him."</blockquote> I've talked with him its no good comes in one ear goes out the other."


Hmmm....it only works so well when on only one party will talk and that goes for marriage in general and relationships in general. Hope he changes his ways quick! :(