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Not interested...? doors33 1 child; Tonawanda, New York 478 posts
21st Nov '12

I'm 17 weeks and 5 days pregnant, finally showing, and I feel like my boyfriend doesn't want anything to do with me...



When we first started being intimate, we literally couldn't keep our hands off of each other. I mean... it could have gotten up to 4 times a day... not kidding. Well obviously we slowed down quite a bit, maybe about... once every other day or maybe every three days depending on how we're feeling.



But... it's been a while... and these damn pregnancy hormones have just made me a freak!!! I've never been a really sexual person until I met him... and now I just feel oppressed... :cry:



And today, he had a short day at work so I thought maybe... you know... tonight could be the night... but we basically just watched movies until he passed out. I wasn't being subtle about wanting to fool around either..



I mean... I know he's been working a lot, and he's tired... but... I feel like he might just not be as attracted to me as he used to be... my body's going through a lot of changes... so... ugh... I don't even know... my hormones make me a horny mess and then they seem to just drop me... v.v

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
21st Nov '12

Have you talked to him?

doors33 1 child; Tonawanda, New York 478 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Have you talked to him?"

Yeah, and of course he said that's a bunch of bs and that he still sees me as the sexiest woman on earth... but he kind of has to say something like that, you know? He can't say, nah babe, you're getting kind of fat and stuff, but I love ya anyways.



Idk, maybe I'm just being overly hormonal... v.v

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting doors33:" Yeah, and of course he said that's a bunch of bs and that he still sees me as the sexiest woman on earth... ... [snip!] ... say, nah babe, you're getting kind of fat and stuff, but I love ya anyways. Idk, maybe I'm just being overly hormonal... v.v"


Pull his pants off and sit on his d**k next time :-P

doors33 1 child; Tonawanda, New York 478 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Pull his pants off and sit on his d**k next time :-P"

OMG! You just made my night! XD



I don't know how well that'd work though... I literally had my hand down his pants last night and he just looked at the clock and said "You know... its kind of late and I have to work pretty early..." It was 9pm...

7 blessings so far.... Due February 3; 6 kids; Glen Burnie, Maryland 8799 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting doors33:" Yeah, and of course he said that's a bunch of bs and that he still sees me as the sexiest woman on earth... ... [snip!] ... say, nah babe, you're getting kind of fat and stuff, but I love ya anyways. Idk, maybe I'm just being overly hormonal... v.v"


lots of men find their pregnant women very attractive....its the whole ''there is a baby sandwhiched between us!'' that can put a halt to the intimacy :) or the fear/anxiety of realizing that there really is a baby ''in there'' and life as they know it will never be the same can cause lack of interest in the bedroom. Or mabe he really is just super TIRED and u are super HORMONAL :)
Really talk to him and find out his feelings...and make sure u let him know how bad u want him !



MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting doors33:" OMG! You just made my night! XD I don't know how well that'd work though... I literally had my hand ... [snip!] ... night and he just looked at the clock and said "You know... its kind of late and I have to work pretty early..." It was 9pm..."

It will work ;)