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what happens if... Milk*factory* 3 kids; Fredericktown-Millsboro, Pennsylvania 3506 posts
Nov 21st '12

I have some medical issues going on. I need to be thinking about my kids and get some things straight. Right now, as is.. my son belongs to my husband so of course he stays with him if anything happens. but my daughter isnt his. and there is no name on her birth cert. just mine. ..so what happens there? like IF something happened? my husband is all she knows. and I wouldnt ever want her away from her brother...
weird question but its reality ya know?

MariaAlexisNJCIII(ASD) 66 kids; Sterling, Illinois 11521 posts
Nov 21st '12
Quoting Milk*factory*:" I have some medical issues going on. I need to be thinking about my kids and get some things straight. ... [snip!] ... my husband is all she knows. and I wouldnt ever want her away from her brother... weird question but its reality ya know?"


id assume shed go to next of kin... ur husband can fight for her! make it official girl so she will be with him and her bro

AaliyahVal'sMommy 1 child; 1 angel baby; Cleveland, Ohio 1364 posts
Nov 21st '12

My friends mother was with another man who wasn't her father but the father of her brother.
When her mother died she stayed with him.

Milk*factory* 3 kids; Fredericktown-Millsboro, Pennsylvania 3506 posts
Nov 21st '12
Quoting MariaAlexisNJCIII(ASD):" id assume shed go to next of kin... ur husband can fight for her! make it official girl so she will be with him and her bro"

I dont have a next of kin. do i? .. omg my mother? no.... :/

I'm me 4 kids; Kentucky 3109 posts
Nov 21st '12

didn't you just say in a different post that he wants to adopt her? If you're worried about this let him so she won't end up with her bio father that has nothing to do with her.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Nov 21st '12

Make out a will and I'm assuming the father isnt involved. Make your DH her legal guardian if something were to happen to you

Milk*factory* 3 kids; Fredericktown-Millsboro, Pennsylvania 3506 posts
Nov 21st '12
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" Make out a will and I'm assuming the father isnt involved. Make your DH her legal guardian if something were to happen to you"


will a will over power my mother? if she were to fight? which she would

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 23103 posts
Nov 21st '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Milk*factory*:</b>" will a will over power my mother? if she were to fight? which she would"</blockquote>




It's a legal document so it should

I'm me 4 kids; Kentucky 3109 posts
Nov 21st '12
Quoting Milk*factory*:" will a will over power my mother? if she were to fight? which she would"

I don't think she would be able to fight it unless she could prove him unfit.

Milk*factory* 3 kids; Fredericktown-Millsboro, Pennsylvania 3506 posts
Nov 21st '12
Quoting I'm me:" I don't think she would be able to fight it unless she could prove him unfit."


hes not :) she just.. would want my daughter.