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I need some adivce, ladies... C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
21st Nov '12

Okay...so first let say Happy Thanksgiving to everyone.



Well, the thing is...my mother, sisters & I are supposed to be going to my aunts house about an hour away from us.
& my mom's side of my family doesn't get along with my dad...so, he will be spending Thanksgiving alone.



Would you go to the Thanksgiving, with your mom ?



or would you stay with your dad ?

Max Power♥ 2 kids; Victorville, California 3328 posts
21st Nov '12

I'd definitely be staying with my dad.

Tea Bag McGee Due November 21 (girl); 2 kids; tardis, OS, United States 6892 posts
21st Nov '12

i would stay with my dad.

Snow 1 child; Storybrooke, ME, United States 34017 posts
21st Nov '12

That's not even a question I'd have to ask myself. I'd be staying with my father.

I'm me 4 kids; Kentucky 3109 posts
21st Nov '12

i would stay with dad. Cook him some dinner!

[JadeLee] 1 child; Minnesota 12190 posts
21st Nov '12

I would have figured it out before the night before Thanksgiving.
I would stay with your dad who is alone though, or at least offer to stay.



My mom just had surgery 3 weeks ago and doesn't want to go anywhere, so we are going to the in-laws for a couple hours, then I plan on coming home and spending time with my mom who will be alone with my little sister. SO is going to be pissed, but I don't feel like sitting around and watching his family get drunk and scream at the TV. But the in-laws are right in town, so it makes it easier for us to do both.

K&T Alberta 272 posts
21st Nov '12

There would be no second thought, I would be staying with my dad.

That Girl. 2 kids; Florida 4109 posts
21st Nov '12

I would stay with your dad. Nobody deserves to be alone during the holidays

Raωkeℓ 1 child; Costa Rica 8257 posts
21st Nov '12

I'd be staying with my father.

C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
21st Nov '12

You ladies are right..



I was not sure at first...because, it would only be...me, him & Alyssa.



I just don't want to upset my mother..that I am not going to go with her

Tea Bag McGee Due November 21 (girl); 2 kids; tardis, OS, United States 6892 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting C A R M E L A:" You ladies are right.. I was not sure at first...because, it would only be...me, him & Alyssa. I just don't want to upset my mother..that I am not going to go with her"


if she gets upset she will get over it.. she has people there. he has no one im sure it would make his day.

C A R M E L A💜 1 child; Mahopac, New York 16272 posts
21st Nov '12
Quoting Tea Bag McGee:" if she gets upset she will get over it.. she has people there. he has no one im sure it would make his day. "


it did..



I just told him...me & Alyssa are staying with him.



There's not much to do here & we have no car...so, I guess we will just have to come up with things.

That Girl. 2 kids; Florida 4109 posts
22nd Nov '12

To bad you couldnt do a lunch with one of them and then dinner with the other. Tomorrow we are going to dh's dads thanksgiving lunch. Then were going to my mom and dads for dinner and luckily dhs mom and step dad come to my moms :)