Dana +4 4 kids; Ontario 951 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" 1.take hubbies pants off 2.blow hubby 3.catch sperm in mouth but dont swallow 4.spit into turkey baster 5.baste vagina"


omg, I just threw up a little....lol

Bustie 16 kids; San Diego, California 1968 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" I don't know how much clearer I could have made that for ya, sweetheart. "

... No it was not clear at all

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting SkinnyBitch:" After all these years I know having a baby is the best option for use, just glad that crying this morning and expressing myself got the damn point across to my thick headed husband."



So he changed his mind in the 30 minutes? Cause you cried?



user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" I'm kinda in the same boat as you actually. Does SO have any kids from previous relationships? I mean.. my husband KNOWS wtf we're getting ourselves into, haha!"


Nope, this is his first. & LO had just turned 3 and was sort of potty training when we met, so he missed out on the fun of dirty diapers and sleepless nights.

Bustie 16 kids; San Diego, California 1968 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting SkinnyBitch:" Thank you and no I am 19."


Oh ok well just ignore people babies are a blessing and a gift ... when someone is young they always claim your life is fucked ignore the negative :)



hope you get pregnant soon and that all goes well...

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting Kelly&Coralie:" So he changed his mind in the 30 minutes? Cause you cried? "


Sounds mature and extremely logical.

Kelly&Coralie 1 child; Rochester, NY, United States 56009 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" Sounds mature and extremely logical."


Just what I was thinking

Legendary 2 kids; Beverly Hills, California 59667 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" Nope, this is his first. & LO had just turned 3 and was sort of potty training when we met, so he missed out on the fun of dirty diapers and sleepless nights."


Oh man, at least it'll be fun experiencing it all with him. Especially because you already know what to do, so you can just be all "Don't worry Bro, I got this." when he's all...



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user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting Bustie:" Oh ok well just ignore people babies are a blessing and a gift ... when someone is young they always ... [snip!] ... is young they always claim your life is fucked ignore the negative :) hope you get pregnant soon and that all goes well..."


Having a child is a LIFE ALTERING event for ANYONE.

SkinnyBitch Aitkin, Minnesota 266 posts
22nd Nov '12

He did not change his mind we are still talking about it but he says he felt pressured did not even want to have sex since I was only about TTC I told him I would show him that will change. We will just let things happen.

Bustie 16 kids; San Diego, California 1968 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" Having a child is a LIFE ALTERING event for ANYONE."

life altering yes not fucked which is what i was trying to say..

Legendary 2 kids; Beverly Hills, California 59667 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting Bustie:" Oh ok well just ignore people babies are a blessing and a gift ... when someone is young they always ... [snip!] ... is young they always claim your life is fucked ignore the negative :) hope you get pregnant soon and that all goes well..."


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No your life is fucked. It's not even your life anymore, your life is over. Everything you do, every decision you make is no longer about you.

user banned 2 kids; New York 34017 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting Bustie:" life altering yes not fucked which is what i was trying to say.."


well, it does f**k it up for some people. has OP taken into account the hormonal/physical changes? Post-partum depression and/or psychosis?



Also, your life is no longer your own. You have someone depending on you 24/7. Every decision you make is now affecting another human being...

Legendary 2 kids; Beverly Hills, California 59667 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting JiLLiAN.:" well, it does f**k it up for some people. has OP taken into account the hormonal/physical changes? Post-partum ... [snip!] ... is no longer your own. You have someone depending on you 24/7. Every decision you make is now affecting another human being..."


Word.



It's not even really your life anymore. When was the last time you made a decision and only took your wants and needs into consideration? I bet it was somewhere before conception of your first :wink: your life is over when that second line comes through :D:D

Bustie 16 kids; San Diego, California 1968 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting SkinnyBitch:" He did not change his mind we are still talking about it but he says he felt pressured did not even want ... [snip!] ... even want to have sex since I was only about TTC I told him I would show him that will change. We will just let things happen."


well you guys are young sure it will happen sooner than later :)