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I'm being a pissy little shit Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
22nd Nov '12

And I don't even care.



My boyfriend has had a dick up his ass for the last two days. I thought it was because he's started a new shift at work and now works a shitty split shift from 9 am-6:30 pm and then 8:30-10:30 pm, so I've been trying to ease his day as much as possible. I work full time but I've taken over all the housework, I make sure dinner is ready at 6:45 so he has enough time to eat and still unwind afterward, and I pack him a lunch and last night I put a cute little note on it just saying I appreciate his hard work and I'll see him tonight because I left before he woke up.



I just got home from Thanksgiving dinner with my family and not only did he leave his lunch in the fridge, he threw my note in the trash.



I'm so f**king done with this shit.

Addi's Momma Due January 23; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Florissant, Missouri 5322 posts
22nd Nov '12

WTF is his problem. Maybe he is just stressed about something. You were trying to be sweet and he was just being an ass.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting dat uterus tho:" And I don't even care. My boyfriend has had a dick up his ass for the last two days. I thought it was ... [snip!] ... family and not only did he leave his lunch in the fridge, he threw my note in the trash. I'm so f**king done with this shit."


Have you considered arsenic?

ElleBelle (32 weeks) Due September 22; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Rio Rancho, NM, United States 21624 posts
22nd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting dat uterus tho:</b>" And I don't even care. My boyfriend has had a dick up his ass for the last two days. I thought it was ... [snip!] ... family and not only did he leave his lunch in the fridge, he threw my note in the trash. I'm so f**king done with this shit."</blockquote>



That would upset me too

Donna Jo Tanner 1 child; Beach Haven, New Jersey 6440 posts
22nd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting MysticWitchKat:</b>" Have you considered arsenic?"</blockquote>




Or soak his meatballs in bleach!

Bri + 1.5 <3 Due October 20 (girl); 1 child; Florida 4344 posts
22nd Nov '12

You have every right to be upset, I would be.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
22nd Nov '12

Sounds like he's pissed at you for some reason. How rude to just throw away a sweet note like that.

bia. 2 kids; ., ., Portugal 73721 posts
22nd Nov '12

Must be that time of the month, eh? my SO came home in an a*****e of a mood last night, still is.



f**k men, who needs em!:roll::roll:

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
22nd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" Sounds like he's pissed at you for some reason. How rude to just throw away a sweet note like that. "</blockquote>




I feel like he's pissed at me too, but I don't know why. I've barely even seen him. I get that hour with him. I'm asleep by the time he gets home and I leave at 5 am to get my kid to school and myself to work.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting dat uterus tho:" <blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" Sounds like he's pissed at you for some reason. How ... [snip!] ... I get that hour with him. I'm asleep by the time he gets home and I leave at 5 am to get my kid to school and myself to work."


It's hard when you barely get to see each other. I understand that, s/o works night shift. When he gets home, I'm getting up getting ready to leave.



I'm not sure why that would make him angry at you though, it's not your fault you have two different schedules.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
22nd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" It's hard when you barely get to see each other. I understand that, s/o works night shift. When he gets ... [snip!] ... to leave. I'm not sure why that would make him angry at you though, it's not your fault you have two different schedules. "</blockquote>



I think he resents the fact that he "has" to work so much. This baby wasn't planned and came at the very beginning of our relationship.



I tell him every time he increases his hours, he doesn't HAVE to do it. We are way more than comfortable on our combined 160 hr/paychecks and when I have to quit working we'll be comfortable on just his. We don't need to save that extra money if it's going to kill him to work that much.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
22nd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting bia.:</b>" Must be that time of the month, eh? my SO came home in an a*****e of a mood last night, still is. f**k men, who needs em!:roll::roll:"</blockquote>




He's been like this for most of our relationship :(

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting dat uterus tho:" <blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" It's hard when you barely get to see each other. ... [snip!] ... working we'll be comfortable on just his. We don't need to save that extra money if it's going to kill him to work that much."


I hate to be blunt about this... but I mean... does he even want the baby? You said it came at the very beginning of the relationship. Maybe he just feels like everything is going too fast and he's come to the conclusion it's not something he wants?

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
22nd Nov '12
Quoting bia.:" Must be that time of the month, eh? my SO came home in an a*****e of a mood last night, still is. f**k men, who needs em!:roll::roll:"


That's the reason they keep being made though :P

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
22nd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" I hate to be blunt about this... but I mean... does he even want the baby? You said it came at the very ... [snip!] ... Maybe he just feels like everything is going too fast and he's come to the conclusion it's not something he wants? "</blockquote>



I don't know. I don't think he wants ME but I think he's excited for the baby, now that it's sunk in. He didn't want it in the begining though.