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user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting Snickles:" Dh is not at all happy with her either, so I don't think he will care if I do that, he might tell me ... [snip!] ... she will be lucky if she ever will because I sure as shit am not going out of my way for her when she treats us like shit. "

my so is afraid that even though she is an abusive b***h that not having her in dds life will deprive her of something.

Snickles 4 kids; California 3064 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:" my so is afraid that even though she is an abusive b***h that not having her in dds life will deprive her of something. "


I can understand that, I mean I feel bad that my kids don't know MIL, but thing is she did it/does it to herself, and if she is that way towards you and your SO your LO will see that and thats not good for LO either. Maybe if you cut her out for a while she will see the problem and stop being like that.

user banned Due November 26; 1 child; Parkersburg, West Virginia 9548 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting Snickles:" I can understand that, I mean I feel bad that my kids don't know MIL, but thing is she did it/does it ... [snip!] ... that and thats not good for LO either. Maybe if you cut her out for a while she will see the problem and stop being like that."


she has it all twisted though. if she doesnt something fucked its our fault and we are the ones hurting dd not her.

Snickles 4 kids; California 3064 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:" she has it all twisted though. if she doesnt something fucked its our fault and we are the ones hurting dd not her. "


wow, I feel for you, I really do, I know it was hard on me for the longest time before DH had enough of it himself, and now I can freely say what I think of her and he doesn't want to be around her either.