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f**k. Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
23rd Nov '12

Crystallight 2 kids; 1065 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting Michael Westen:" PLEASE DO NOT QUOTE I have no idea how to leave DH. I have been with him since a week after I turned ... [snip!] ... her from me. I have looked at places down by my mom. She has offered to help me. But it all feels wrong. Blah. Idk. Sorry."


Save money then take stuff to your moms like cloths kids stuff he wont notice hide it then one day after a couple months just leave

user banned California 8675 posts
23rd Nov '12

Work your problems out and get counseling!

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18064 posts
23rd Nov '12

Line up your place to go. If you're scared he'll hurt you, pack your shit while he's at work. Then tell him you're done when you're gone. And then never look back

wilde_mommy 4 kids; Columbus, Ohio 3459 posts
23rd Nov '12

I have no advice to offer you since I've never been there. But good luck mama, it truely sounds like you're doing the best thing for yourself and DD. I hope everything goes smoothly for you

user banned California 8675 posts
23rd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:</b>" Line up your place to go. If you're scared he'll hurt you, pack your shit while he's at work. Then tell him you're done when you're gone. And then never look back"</blockquote>




This!! I am wondering has he hit her if so just leave.

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting crystalgayle2011:" Save money then take stuff to your moms like cloths kids stuff he wont notice hide it then one day after a couple months just leave"


Can you unquote please?



And my mom lives in FL, and I live in SD. So I have to fit everything. But I would feel wrong doing that. I mean I guess I always pictured leaving after a big fight or something.

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting ~*VINTAGE LOVE*~:" Work your problems out and get counseling!"


Yeah.... no. It's past that point.

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting ~*VINTAGE LOVE*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Angel [Mariah's Mommy]:</b>" Line up your place to go. If you're ... [snip!] ... done when you're gone. And then never look back"</blockquote> This!! I am wondering has he hit her if so just leave."


Not actually "hit" me but has gotten a little rough with me. Like a few weeks ago I was joking with him and apparently did something he didn't like so he smashed my face into his chest and held me there.

Crystallight 2 kids; 1065 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting Michael Westen:" Can you unquote please? And my mom lives in FL, and I live in SD. So I have to fit everything. But ... [snip!] ... to fit everything. But I would feel wrong doing that. I mean I guess I always pictured leaving after a big fight or something."


Maybe you really dont want to leave? Because you say its wrong so id get help first maybe

user banned California 8675 posts
23rd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Michael Westen:</b>" Not actually "hit" me but has gotten a little rough with me. Like a few weeks ago I was joking with ... [snip!] ... ago I was joking with him and apparently did something he didn't like so he smashed my face into his chest and held me there."</blockquote>



Wtf :shock:

khigh 1 child; Fort Sill, Oklahoma 8101 posts
23rd Nov '12

Pack up while he is at work and just leave. Just start driving and don't look back, don't turn around. Call him after you are far enough away that he can't follow you.

Angel [Mariah's Mommy] 1 child; Indianapolis, Indiana 18064 posts
23rd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Michael Westen:</b>" Not actually




Then do just as I've suggested. Don't tell him before. Make sure you have everything you HAVE to have, as soon as you get to fl file for custody

user banned California 8675 posts
23rd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting crystalgayle2011:</b>" Maybe you really dont want to leave? Becuase you say its wrond so id get help first maybe"</blockquote>




I agree at least try to get help and if he refuses then leave.

Crystallight 2 kids; 1065 posts
23rd Nov '12

I would just find somewhere to hide things you need and money then leave when hes working. Why let it get to the point to a fight, Things may get out of hand, Be in control of it