My first thought when I saw your title was, "Be my guest."
But really, that sucks...Guys don't always think very thoroughly, is my guess. Hugs Momma!
Quoting Magic Mommy:" My husband is asshole! I tore my IT band in my hip/thigh and its painful to move or walk on. I had it ... [snip!] ... and showering just to do things with them. Whenever he fucks his back up I always respect him and not be.pissy or bother him."
Wow what a ass
do you have family closeby that you can goto for the day and relax? then this way if you are gone he has to step up. men can be such pussies sometimes when they are sick or hurt yet if it happens to you its like were all supposed to turn into superwomen
He is an asshole, and if I were you, I would tell him just that. Maybe not within ear shot of the children, but I'd say it, none the less. Fuck him. I'm sorry you're in so much pain honey, I have been having problems with my IT bands in both legs for a while, so I know your pain. It's horrible being stuck. Maybe you can get yourself situated so that you can do crafts and things with them while you lay on the couch or something? Don't over exert yourself, of course. I understand full well how hard it is to be a mom and not be able to do the things you need to do.