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Cast Your Vote:

    • Fight to have his custody removed -- Votes: 1
    • Fight for more child support -- Votes: 5
    • Let ava firgure out on her own that he is no good and do nothing -- Votes: 2
    • Suck it up and dont be a bitch -- Votes: 2
BD Drama =/ (Big VEnt) Ashley 2 little miss Ava 1 child; Beaumont, Texas 2477 posts
23rd Nov '12

I swear I am so completely fed up with my BD this a*****e is only responsible for one thing and that is to pay a freaking 70 dollars every two weeks but he can not even manage to do that. I swear he does this crap just to piss me off. First he had a really good job and they were taking it out of his check but he purposely quit that job and has not reported to the child support office where he is working at now. He won't even tell me where he is working at. So in the state of Texas the child support office told us that as long as he is paying something they wont pick up his case. So the a*****e is only paying like 8 bucks or 12 the most really dude really! I would rather you not pay anything at all then insult my daughter with your f**king 8 bucks! I have heard people say that if your on any kind of government assistant they take it out the child support but I have no kind of government assistant at all so he is just doing that sh** on purpose. I've tried reporting it but not a damn thing is changing. Then he expects me to let him see her when ever he wants. Why should I if you can't even do the one thing you are required to do? I told everybody that when he gets a new girlfriend he will more than likely do this crap and look he is doing it all. Not really seeing his daughter not paying child support. That no good piece of crap!!!! I have always done my best to make sure he stays in her life or at least do what I can so she will see it is him not me. But if he wants to act immature then I have no problem taking all his rights away I should of done it a long time ago when the judge gave me the opportunity to but no I had to be all nice and crap. Another thing that is pissing me off is my daughter coming home telling me that her dad got mad and took her ice cream away because she said she has two daddys. Why the hell you getting mad my fiance has been here for her for almost 4 years now he has raised her. It is not her fault that her real daddy doesnt do shit for her so she view my fiance as her daddy. Ughhhhh and on top of that my daughter tells me that his girlfriend talks a lot of smack about me and it upsets her oooooo hell no!!!!!!

[yo.] 1 child; Gayville, South Dakota 13371 posts
23rd Nov '12

As long as he isn't a danger tithe child they won't strip the rights

user banned Ohio 4193 posts
23rd Nov '12

There isn't really an option for me choose. Most states won't just take parental rights away unless someone else is willing to adopt the child, but in order for that to happen you have to be married. I wouldn't fight him for more child support, let him dig his own hole. Is there a visitation schedule in place? If not I would just stop contacting him and letting him see her.

Ashley 2 little miss Ava 1 child; Beaumont, Texas 2477 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting [yo.]:" As long as he isn't a danger tithe child they won't strip the rights"


I'm pretty sure they will they have given me the option before his family is a big time drug dealer in and out of the pen his father is no joke on the FBI wanted list he literally is only allowed to see her in a public place and every time we go to court he shows his ass. The judge has suspended his custody for 6months twice!

taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49129 posts
23rd Nov '12

what the poster above said... Also they dont consider child support and visits the same so he would still get visits even if hes not paying anything.

taking a look at life Palm beach gardens, FL, United States 49129 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting Ashley 2 little miss Ava:" I'm pretty sure they will they have given me the option before his family is a big time drug dealer ... [snip!] ... her in a public place and every time we go to court he shows his ass. The judge has suspended his custody for 6months twice!"


His father has nothing to do with ur case so that wont be reverent.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
23rd Nov '12

They will not take his rights away just because he pissed you off.

Ashley 2 little miss Ava 1 child; Beaumont, Texas 2477 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting ZenMama:" There isn't really an option for me choose. Most states won't just take parental rights away unless someone ... [snip!] ... him dig his own hole. Is there a visitation schedule in place? If not I would just stop contacting him and letting him see her."


No we have an agreement and we do not speak to each other at all or see each other my grandparents take her to see him and pretty much our court agreement is I get to decided when he can see her and it has to be in a public place. Yes That is what i have been doing let him dig his own hole but this will be the second time he gets in trouble for child support I'm just hopeing to speed it up this time and not wait almost two years.

Ashley 2 little miss Ava 1 child; Beaumont, Texas 2477 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting dat uterus tho:" They will not take his rights away just because he pissed you off."


I am very aware of that thanks!

Ashley 2 little miss Ava 1 child; Beaumont, Texas 2477 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting Click Me Click Me!!!:" His father has nothing to do with ur case so that wont be reverent. "

His father has played a big role actually because he lives with him!

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
23rd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley 2 little miss Ava:</b>" I'm pretty sure they will they have given me the option before his family is a big time drug dealer ... [snip!] ... her in a public place and every time we go to court he shows his ass. The judge has suspended his custody for 6months twice!"</blockquote>



My daughter's father is a drug dealer and heroin and meth addict and he could still get supervised visitations.



BD's father has no bearing on his case.

Ashley 2 little miss Ava 1 child; Beaumont, Texas 2477 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting Click Me Click Me!!!:" what the poster above said... Also they dont consider child support and visits the same so he would still get visits even if hes not paying anything. "

Doesnt matter my court agreement says I only have to let him see her once month for 2 hours the min. It is because of me that he see's her more just because i dont want to be the reason that ava uses to say he is never around or involved.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
23rd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley 2 little miss Ava:</b>" I am very aware of that thanks!"</blockquote>




Obviously you're not since you seem to think a judge will just strip rights on your whim.

Ashley 2 little miss Ava 1 child; Beaumont, Texas 2477 posts
23rd Nov '12
Quoting dat uterus tho:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley 2 little miss Ava:</b>" I'm pretty sure they will they ... [snip!] ... drug dealer and heroin and meth addict and he could still get supervised visitations. BD's father has no bearing on his case."


You all are not hearing the part where the judge has giving me the option to have his rights stripped but I choose to only have is custody suspended for 6 months.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
23rd Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley 2 little miss Ava:</b>" His father has played a big role actually because he lives with him!"</blockquote>




Well then you're a pretty shitty mother for putting your daughter in that much danger to be "nice" to your supposedly pos bd.