мɑkɑnɑni ~*~, FL, United States 62945 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting CoreyLynn:" I cannot believe the catty and inconsiderate people here. Do you not get that she is already pregnant ... [snip!] ... Empowerment and well wishes...or telling her that she is gross and what she should have done in the past. The answer is clear. "


Are you a broken record?

.t a y l o r. 3 kids; Indiana 3847 posts
24th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting CoreyLynn:</b>" I cannot believe the catty and inconsiderate people here. Do you not get that she is already pregnant ... [snip!] ... Empowerment and well wishes...or telling her that she is gross and what she should have done in the past. The answer is clear. "</blockquote>




Welcome to the Internet. Enjoy your stay.

мɑkɑnɑni ~*~, FL, United States 62945 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting Fancy Asparagus Beef:" <blockquote><b>Quoting CoreyLynn:</b>" I cannot believe the catty and inconsiderate ... [snip!] ... what she should have done in the past. The answer is clear. "</blockquote> Welcome to the Internet. Enjoy your stay."


:lol:

† Phoenix † 1 angel baby; 16166 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting CoreyLynn:" I cannot believe the catty and inconsiderate people here. Do you not get that she is already pregnant ... [snip!] ... Empowerment and well wishes...or telling her that she is gross and what she should have done in the past. The answer is clear. "


Well truth hurt sweet heart!

CoreyLynn Due November 27; California 50 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting Fancy Asparagus Beef:" <blockquote><b>Quoting CoreyLynn:</b>" I cannot believe the catty and inconsiderate ... [snip!] ... what she should have done in the past. The answer is clear. "</blockquote> Welcome to the Internet. Enjoy your stay."


Huh?

kthx. TTC since Nov 2012; Cleves, Ohio 65262 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting CoreyLynn:" Whats done is done. Do not let these people make you feel "gross" or ashamed. I hope that you are surrounded ... [snip!] ... the best. Don't let these condescending people make you feel bad. You need strength and support right now. Good luck to you. "


A man raped a child. That. Is. Gross.

cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
24th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting CoreyLynn:</b>" I cannot believe the catty and inconsiderate people here. Do you not get that she is already pregnant ... [snip!] ... Empowerment and well wishes...or telling her that she is gross and what she should have done in the past. The answer is clear. "</blockquote>



Haa. Yeah, because everyone should support the sex-life of a child and adult. No...

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Oceanside, CA, United States 112505 posts
status 24th Nov '12
Quoting kthx.:" A man raped a child. That. Is. Gross."


Exactly

kthx. TTC since Nov 2012; Cleves, Ohio 65262 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting CoreyLynn:" She asked for information on the legal implications. She did not ask to be judged. Calling it gross is not what she needs right now. She does not have a time machine."


He should've known better before even talking to her. He's a pervert. What sane man wants a child?! It's sickening.

мɑkɑnɑni ~*~, FL, United States 62945 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting kthx.:" A man raped a child. That. Is. Gross."


:!:

cfxfdfdfdsfdafdsf Vacaville, California 71166 posts
24th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting kthx.:</b>" He should've known better before even talking to her. He's a pervert. What sane man wants a child?! It's sickening."</blockquote>




:!:
Exactly

familyLivin' 3 kids; Windsor, Ontario 173 posts
24th Nov '12

Honestly my SO and I are 4 years apart, I was 15 when I got pregnant with OUR first 16 when I had him 17 when I had OUR second and 21 when I had OUR third, is he gross? NO, he is not. Should we have been having sex? Also NO but we did and here we are. Don't judge him or her for that matter she doesn't need that right now, nor does he. What if he turns out to be dad of the year? I'm not saying it was right but keep the judgement to yourself, it's rude and uncalled-for!



OP My SO signed the birth certificate and never got charged but I am in Canada.

::1st:: Time Mommy 1 child; Sumner, Washington 255 posts
24th Nov '12

Since you are asking about your whats going to happen not for what happend that you cannot change. I wouldnt put his name on the birth cirtifacte just because of this issue. Your parents could press charges, the birth cirtificate could help them with getting him convicted. I know being a young single mom is hard because im about to become one any day, although im not a teen im 22 and the dad isnt around and doesnt plan on it which is fine with me in the long run. I hope you have support from famiyl and friends, and if you ever need someone just to let out your problems and worries and "unload" all the stress on, you can send me a Private Message. I wish you the best of luck with you baby and hope everything works out for the best in the long run, because thats all you can really hope for. <3

CoreyLynn Due November 27; California 50 posts
24th Nov '12

It is two teenagers who had sex and got pregnant. It is not ideal for them at all, but it is not uncommon either. What do you suggest that she do with her current situation?

::1st:: Time Mommy 1 child; Sumner, Washington 255 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting familyLivin':" Honestly my SO and I are 4 years apart, I was 15 when I got pregnant with OUR first 16 when I had him ... [snip!] ... to yourself, it's rude and uncalled-for! OP My SO signed the birth certificate and never got charged but I am in Canada."

THIS! You phrased everything so well! I am glad everything worked out really well for you!