κατι 1 child; Memphis, Tennessee 3143 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" Yeah, she came back and posted that they know and their response was if you take care of the baby we wont press charges but if you dont we'll press charges."

Lol that makes no sense. was she a troll?

κατι 1 child; Memphis, Tennessee 3143 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" How does that make no sense?? :? The parents were telling the SO that if he didn't care for his kid, they'd turn him in. That makes perfect sense... "

It would make more sense to turn him from the get go. Not blackmail him. Then they're going to get questioned why didn't they report it sooner.

κατι 1 child; Memphis, Tennessee 3143 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" No they won't. This makes perfect sense. If he's caring for the child, then putting him in jail would ... [snip!] ... He can't pay child support in jail. But if he wants to skip out, they'll turn him in, because not like he's helping anyhow. "

Oh i understand now. Yes that does make sense lol i guess i read it wrong at first.

Vodka Knockers 1 child; North Carolina 8063 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" No they won't. This makes perfect sense. If he's caring for the child, then putting him in jail would ... [snip!] ... He can't pay child support in jail. But if he wants to skip out, they'll turn him in, because not like he's helping anyhow. "

I just had a random brain fart.
Her parents are kind of tweeking out on that. I mean, what's the statute of limitations on statutory rape in their state? What happens if he 'supports' the kid and aids in raising it until the statute runs out, then bails and they can't do anything and he gets away scott free?



Just a random, brain fart thought lol.

Vodka Knockers 1 child; North Carolina 8063 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Eh, some states don't have a statute of limitations on rape, especially with a minor. So it'll depend on where she lives. You know?"

Ahh, see I didn't know that about some states not having one. I thought they all had one.
That'll teach my brain to get gassy.

miss.Amandalyn 3 kids; Saskatchewan 1274 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting sooletsunwind:" How did he not ask about your birthday/age until 3 months in? :shock:"


I call bs on that or he knew and didn't care I always ask age first

MyPurrrtyBabies 3 kids; Alabama 8386 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting sooletsunwind:" How did he not ask about your birthday/age until 3 months in? :shock:"


He just didn't. We hung out a lot, walked to the park a lot and Idk, he just never asked me. Then after about 3 months his sister had said something and that's when he asked me. Hmmph, but that was 8 1/2 yrs ago though , lol ....

MyPurrrtyBabies 3 kids; Alabama 8386 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting Lovelyyy KD*:" <blockquote><b>Quoting sooletsunwind:</b>" How did he not ask about your birthday/age ... [snip!] ... not ask about your birthday/age until 3 months in? :shock:"</blockquote> :!: That's generally a good starter question"


Nope, not in my case. Oh well....after 8 1/2 yrs and 3 kids, who knows?! But I do remember when he did ask me ( bc he thought I LOOKED at least 17 ) and I told him 14 he was shocked but we were already crazy for each other by then so there was no backing out and I am glad we didn't. We are very lucky and blessed to have each other.