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Im a bitch... * vent* justwanttodelete Due July 23 (girl); Switzerland 1021 posts
24th Nov '12

*long vent* So i feel bad because i was really mean today about my SOs family. I have always been nice and respectful to them. But some boundaries have been crossed. His grandmother makes me feel guilty if i dont want my daughter to spend the night on that certain night, she has done things with my daughter when i said no ( when she was 4 weeks and it was 98 degrees outside i said dont take her out...she did. then when i thought it had been long enough and told her to bring baby in....she made excuses not to), she use to tell my baby that mommy and daddy wouldnt feed her...we were letting her starve ! wtf! it wasnt feeding time yet. She has made rude comments to me before and i havent said a word. i kept the peace. All that has built up in me. Now his parents are in town (they live in florida) and his mom is driving me nuts. We have to cater to her...give her what she wants because she is never around. She gave my 3 month old frosting off of a cake the other night when i wasnt there...neither was SO. yea i know it was a low chance it would hurt her but i didnt like it...something like that should be the parents decision. Then she let a dog lick my babys mouth..more then once and i told her not to. I feel like nobody has respect. His parents are staying with his grandparents 30min from us...the last three nights we have had to go there...they wont come to our place. SO told them 3 times...today they could come to use, we want to relax and let baby relax its been a busy week. His mom kept on and on making him feel bad...he didnt budge. So they came to us..then his sister shows up with her boyfriend and his 2 nephews and then SOs friend and all who i didnt know where coming. Then his mom told him to go out to the grandparents..and he caved. I finally told him what i thought about it all. and i hurt his feelings....he got mad and i ruined his family time. ugh! i would feel the same way if it was my family...but that dont matter. i feel like i should shut up because they leave in 2 days but still....ugh! im overwhelmed

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
24th Nov '12

Thats a rough spot, but you don't need ll that drama. It is YOUR child, they need to respect that. Stand firm mama, it'll get better

⚓Misty⚓ 4 kids; Keenesburg, Colorado 7276 posts
24th Nov '12

Remember its only 2 more days. hang in there!

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
24th Nov '12

Some of that stuff sounds really petty. The dog's not going to kill your kid, your mouth is dirtier and you kiss your baby. A little frosting once isn't worth ruining a relationship. If your kid is hungry, feed it, who gives a damn if it's a scheduled feeding time, babies get hungry and you feed them.

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Some of that stuff sounds really petty. The dog's not going to kill your kid, your mouth is dirtier and ... [snip!] ... If your kid is hungry, feed it, who gives a damn if it's a scheduled feeding time, babies get hungry and you feed them."


Maybe, but i'm sure she doesn't go around licking her private parts or eating poop, its just a gross thought lol

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
24th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" Maybe, but i'm sure she doesn't go around licking her private parts or eating poop, its just a gross thought lol"</blockquote>




Not all dogs do. Mine doesn't. And it's been medically and scientifically proven they are cleaner. Dogs licks are actually used in some wound clinics for wounds that just won't heal. Lizzy "tends" to my wounds no joke. Every time I come home from the hospital she sniffs and will lick every spot they poke me, and there's usually about 5. I've never once had any reaction or infection from anything she licked. Their saliva has natural antibiotics in it.

Iyahna :^P Southern California, CA, United States 13575 posts
status 24th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" Maybe, but i'm sure she doesn't go ... [snip!] ... about 5. I've never once had any reaction or infection from anything she licked. Their saliva has natural antibiotics in it."</blockquote>
I agree..especially the schedule part.

mommytomel(: 1 child; California 1274 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" Maybe, but i'm sure she doesn't go ... [snip!] ... about 5. I've never once had any reaction or infection from anything she licked. Their saliva has natural antibiotics in it."


i agree on the dog thing , but its her kid and they should respect her rules, i love dogs and my daughter can sleep with my pup in her crib for all i care but not everyone feels the same ,but if someone were giving my 3 month old icing i would flip i just dont think thats ok and as the childs mother she has the right to be angry at these people disrespecting her authority...

justwanttodelete Due July 23 (girl); Switzerland 1021 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" Some of that stuff sounds really petty. The dog's not going to kill your kid, your mouth is dirtier and ... [snip!] ... If your kid is hungry, feed it, who gives a damn if it's a scheduled feeding time, babies get hungry and you feed them."

its respect...if momma says no or daddy says the you dont do it. she wasnt hungry she was fighting sleep...i know my child

justwanttodelete Due July 23 (girl); Switzerland 1021 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting iisabell:" i agree on the dog thing , but its her kid and they should respect her rules, i love dogs and my ... [snip!] ... just dont think thats ok and as the childs mother she has the right to be angry at these people disrespecting her authority..."

thank you for understanding even if you dont agree on everything

justwanttodelete Due July 23 (girl); Switzerland 1021 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:" Thats a rough spot, but you don't need ll that drama. It is YOUR child, they need to respect that. Stand firm mama, it'll get better"


thanks

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting iisabell:" i agree on the dog thing , but its her kid and they should respect her rules, i love dogs and my ... [snip!] ... just dont think thats ok and as the childs mother she has the right to be angry at these people disrespecting her authority..."


Ideally yeah, what mom and dad say should go, but sometimes you have to just roll your eyes and let it go. I HATE that my dad lets my kid have sips of soda, like HATE IT, but I also know it's not worth ruining his relationship with his grandson over a little sugar.

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting AubriesMom:" its respect...if momma says no or daddy says the you dont do it. she wasnt hungry she was fighting sleep...i know my child "


Yes, you do. But if that's the only thing you picked out. There's other issues. I'd be pissed off if I were your boyfriend and you were bitching about every little thing with my parents when they aren't around regularly. Sure his grandma, be pissed over that but to ruin someone's visit because your feelings and emotions and wants are more important. That's just selfish.

KissMeFinnNelson<3 1 child; 2 angel babies; Glasgow, Scotland, UK, United Kingdom 5406 posts
24th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" Yes, you do. But if that's the only thing you picked out. There's other issues. I'd be pissed off if ... [snip!] ... over that but to ruin someone's visit because your feelings and emotions and wants are more important. That's just selfish."</blockquote>




So you think it's ok her SO is pissed off for her "bitching about every little thing they do" yet you're telling her she has no right to be pissed off that they are repeatedly rude to her and disrespect every decision she makes about her child? Yes because that makes tons of sense......

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49343 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting xTJ:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" Yes, you do. But if that's the ... [snip!] ... are repeatedly rude to her and disrespect every decision she makes about her child? Yes because that makes tons of sense......"


When someone complains about everything, yeah. It's ridiculous. I didn't say she didn't have the right to be pissed. Actually I said she did, but sometimes you have to let things go because you can't control everything. She sounds like EVERYTHING has to go her way just from what she said on this post, in my perception, so yeah I can understand why her boyfriend would be pissy about her bitching about everything.