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24th Nov '12

holiday dinners/parties at your DH's family's without him? His mom's brotger is doing Thanksgiving today and I really do NOT want to go but if I don't I'll get a lecture from FIL. :roll: DH has to work and refuses to get up to help me so I think I'm just going to call and tell them no.

I♥RYLEIGH 49 kids; Windsor, Ontario 10434 posts
24th Nov '12

SO works afternoons so I always end up going to these functions without him. I don't mind going, but if i don't go they don't have a problem either.

BC Mama 2 kids; British Columbia 512 posts
24th Nov '12

I haven't ever had to but if I did I probably would want to call and say no but SO would probably make me lol.

Crazyhazel89 1 child; Erie, Pennsylvania 3994 posts
24th Nov '12

yeah I have but he always comes later.

user banned California 36390 posts
24th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting shelbylynn [22 WEEKS!]:</b>" SO works afternoons so I always end up going to these functions without him. I don't mind going, but if i don't go they don't have a problem either."</blockquote>




I hate going. Only one person ever talks.to me.

Mother of One plus One 2 kids; Ware Shoals, South Carolina 4418 posts
24th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jude the Super k******r:</b>" holiday dinners/parties at your DH's family's without him? His mom's brotger is doing Thanksgiving today ... [snip!] ... a lecture from FIL. :roll: DH has to work and refuses to get up to help me so I think I'm just going to call and tell them no."</blockquote>




I would go with out him. We have a random relationship though where I don't hate them all.

Nathan Young 2 kids; Syracuse, New York 57579 posts
24th Nov '12

Unless I want to go, no.

drunk faith1 1 child; Alabama 10081 posts
24th Nov '12

It would depend on if I liked them or not. If only one person is going to talk to you, I wouldnt go

♥K + 1 (12 weeks) Due September 1; 1 child; Dildo, 33078 posts
24th Nov '12

I did for thanksgiving. SO works out of state, and his family invited me multiple times, and I didn't want to be rude. So K and I went for a little while.

wilde_mommy 4 kids; Columbus, Ohio 3459 posts
24th Nov '12

I always go, but I grew up with his family. I was best friends with SIL growing up so his family has been my 2nd family since I was 12.

Rebekah 2 kids; Tennessee 5481 posts
24th Nov '12

I would go, but I get along with my inlaws. I'll probably have to go to their christmas eve party and hubby meet me there later when he finishes up with work. I wouldn't do it if I wasn't close to them though.

ChubbyCheekers 2 kids; New York 3117 posts
24th Nov '12

I'll go without him if he has to work or something. His family is my family too. But I don't know your relationship with your in-laws.