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Really bothered e V & E's Mom! 2 kids; Stockton, California 4782 posts
24th Nov '12

Even though I have no place to be. BD just up and left in the middle of the night. I called him and he ignored my call and he text me just saying goodnight see you in the am and to trust him. He swore he wasn't with a girl and that he'd be back by AM. I woke up and noticed him gone at 1:30. It's now 8:15 am and he's still gone. I'm not naive so I figure he's with a girl. But it still bothers the hell out of me. :(

*TaraT&3peas* Due March 31; 2 kids; Ohio 359 posts
24th Nov '12

it sounds like a james bond or superhero movie LMAO like he's some secret FBI detectiver or super hero like batman and can't tell you and he has an emergency to save the world LOL :) Just adding some humor, I hope hes not out cheating, if you do i'd tell him he don't have to come back he can just stay with his little slut slut

The Doctor 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59728 posts
status 24th Nov '12

Are you guys together? :( I'm sorry, either way.

Lailas_Momma+1Ange TTC since Jun 2013; 17 kids; New Mexico 561 posts
24th Nov '12

I would be botherred and pissed off. Is it a normal thing for him to do? Just to up and leave? Unless it was an emergency there is no reason somone needs to leave at 1am randomlly.

*TaraT&3peas* Due March 31; 2 kids; Ohio 359 posts
24th Nov '12

I mean if you do find out he is*

V & E's Mom! 2 kids; Stockton, California 4782 posts
24th Nov '12

No we aren't together. We are still living together though. I know I can't say anything if he was with a girl. But because I still care for him it still bothers me. A lot. Like to the point where since I found out that he left and he just told me to go back to sleep and to trust him and he said "no I'm not with a girl trust me" I have been up every hour checking my phone and looking outside to see if he came home.



Like I said. We are single so it's none of my business but I still hurts and I still am extremely bothered. :( it's kinda a vent. But him being with a girl is the only logical explanation. Unless he went to his parents to sleep... But i don't think he did that. He parents live right down the street from us.

The Doctor 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59728 posts
status 24th Nov '12
Quoting V & E's Mom! [25 weeks]:" No we aren't together. We are still living together though. I know I can't say anything if he was with ... [snip!] ... Unless he went to his parents to sleep... But i don't think he did that. He parents live right down the street from us."


I'm really sorry that happened.... can I ask why you're living together? :( Seems like it's going to be hard to get over him if you live with him, yaknow?

AmandaSixx + JZS Due November 22 (boy); 2 kids; Gresham, Oregon 25841 posts
status 24th Nov '12

Girl I love you!!! if you ever need to talk to me you can text PM whatever you want! if you want my number let me know!

V & E's Mom! 2 kids; Stockton, California 4782 posts
24th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" I'm really sorry that happened.... can I ask why you're living together? :( Seems like it's going to be hard to get over him if you live with him, yaknow?"</blockquote>



Well he did a total dick move when we broke up. And you're right. It is super hard to get over him living with him.



He asked me to be a SAHM for the babies when I was weeks pregnant. I put my 2 week notice in at work and 2 days later he broke up with me. I can't afford to move out and I don't have family to go home to. I'm stuck living here until I can afford it again. I just got a new job however but I don't think it's enough to get by on. So we live together. He has done a lot of dickish things since we broke up but I really do not have another option. :(

V & E's Mom! 2 kids; Stockton, California 4782 posts
24th Nov '12

I meant 10 weeks pregnant.

The Doctor 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59728 posts
status 24th Nov '12
Quoting V & E's Mom! [25 weeks]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" I'm really sorry that happened.... can I ... [snip!] ... by on. So we live together. He has done a lot of dickish things since we broke up but I really do not have another option. :("


Aw, I understand. I really hope that you get things worked out so that you are able to be happier and healthier emotionally. But, until then, HUGS!

V & E's Mom! 2 kids; Stockton, California 4782 posts
24th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting The Doctor:</b>" Aw, I understand. I really hope that you get things worked out so that you are able to be happier and healthier emotionally. But, until then, HUGS!"</blockquote>




Thank you. :(