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custody question. ♥K + G Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Dildo, 33084 posts
24th Nov '12

I'm all for my BD dating. I couldn't care less, but if I were to file for custody would the fact that he recently started dating my sister make a difference?
It's the main reason I want to file as I don't want my son to see his aunt and dad kissing, or if they were to have a kid it would be his cousin and sibling, I'm not okay with that.
If he was dating anyone else like he has been I wouldn't care. So it's not out of jealousy or anything. I just don't think it's an appropriate relationship for my son to see.

Buffy♥ 2 kids; Japan 3741 posts
24th Nov '12

I wouldn't think it would make a difference. The law can't tell you who you can and cannot date. Gross though.

♥K + G Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Dildo, 33084 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting Buffy♥:" I wouldn't think it would make a difference. The law can't tell you who you can and cannot date. Gross though."


:( Ugh, I don't want him to see those two together. I think it's disgusting, inappropriate, and unfair to K.

. , Richmond, VA, United States 75060 posts
24th Nov '12

I'm not sure, that's pretty messed up of your sister though.

The Doctor 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59981 posts
24th Nov '12

Whether you have a custody agreement or not, it won't change that he can kiss whatever girlfriend he has in front of your son. (ETA: your sister, though, ick.)

Buffy♥ 2 kids; Japan 3741 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting ♥K:" :( Ugh, I don't want him to see those two together. I think it's disgusting, inappropriate, and unfair to K."


You could always make it where he has to come to you to see him while you're not under a custody agreement. I wouldn't want my kid seeing that either. And way worse if they have a kid together.

The Doctor 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59981 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting Buffy♥:" You could always make it where he has to come to you to see him while you're not under a custody agreement. I wouldn't want my kid seeing that either. And way worse if they have a kid together."


While that's all well and good, that will hurt OP's case in a court, I think.

Carrie Bradshaw 1 child; Cabo San Lucas, Mexico 2456 posts
24th Nov '12

Oh wow, I am not sure but that is really messed up on your sisters part.

♥K + G Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Dildo, 33084 posts
24th Nov '12

This whole thing makes me so upset. I didn't care at first. He lives in a hotel across country for work so he never came around. He has only come around since he started seeing her, but I figured cross country they wouldn't last because I know how both of them are, but now sshes moving out with him.

Buffy♥ 2 kids; Japan 3741 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting The Doctor:" While that's all well and good, that will hurt OP's case in a court, I think."


Yes, that is true. :(



OP, what the hell is your sister thinking? How does she find this okay? :?

♥K + G Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Dildo, 33084 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting Buffy♥:" Yes, that is true. :( OP, what the hell is your sister thinking? How does she find this okay? :?"


They both do.
He initially said that if I was going to file for custody over it he would end it.
But now he's saying that he makes way more money than I do so he would be able to afford a better lawyer than me.

~*~ Nichole ~*~ 4 kids; Vancouver, Washington 11261 posts
24th Nov '12

That's so wrong of your sister!

user banned California 36390 posts
24th Nov '12

Wow I would never forgive my sister if she did something like that!

Buffy♥ 2 kids; Japan 3741 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting ♥K:" They both do. He initially said that if I was going to file for custody over it he would end it. But ... [snip!] ... would end it. But now he's saying that he makes way more money than I do so he would be able to afford a better lawyer than me."


Well, regardless, the first person who files usually has more leverage. So make sure you get on it first!

♥K + G Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Dildo, 33084 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting ~*~ Nichole ~*~:" That's so wrong of your sister!"


It's equally wrong of both of them. His family doesn't give a shit. My whole family s pretty much disowning her, besides my mom.