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Someone please give me advice. Aria's Mommy&Daddy Due December 18 (boy); 1 child; Mesa, Arizona 806 posts
24th Nov '12

Okay bd & i broke up, i moved out. Well a few weeks after that I went over with our daughter we slept togther a couple times & just acted like we were togther.. I left 3 days later, and he starrts posting about this other girl! who he is "in love" with. Really just after a few weeks?!! And then yesterday he asked if i wanted to go with him to his dads for breakfast & i tagged along, i miss the family. & he tells his sis he misses me but now he changed his mind again & im a nothing. Has anyone been thru this? Im going crazy i dont know what to believe anymore :(
if he loves me or he doesnt i really dont know. Honestly i thnk shes a distraction from the pain hes really going thru..
advice pleaase </3
* sorry for misspelings and everything else thats wrong.. im venting & not paying attention to it.

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
24th Nov '12

I think that he is playing games with you.



Stop sleeping with him and dating him and hanging out with him. It's confusing you too much.



I'm sorry.

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
24th Nov '12

Don't let him keep stringing you along. If you're broken up then act like it.
Or you could tell him to choose either you and nobody else, or losing you for good(if you still want to be with him).
If you are the one that left him then yeah it sounds like he's just trying to get over you because he thinks you don't want to be with him.
If he left you, then stop sleeping with him and getting your hopes up.

ashley noel [gav's here!] 2 kids; Rhode Island 6374 posts
24th Nov '12

Sounds like he wants this new girl, with you still there to f**k on the side.



Get outta there.

Aria's Mommy&Daddy Due December 18 (boy); 1 child; Mesa, Arizona 806 posts
24th Nov '12

He broke up with me, & we agreed id live there for a little & ee where our hearts were at. But then some bs happened so i moved out. I just dont knw, like everytime we hugged, kissed, had sex was because he did it. Like of course i did not mind but i asked like why did you f**k with my head and he said he fcked with his own that weekend too. That he lovs me & wants me but we needd to fix ourselves first. Well how is that supposed to happen when youre already f**king other b***hes. Sorry im just so angry with him. I did ast as if i didnt care yesterday, & thats my plan. Im going to act like i dont care anymore & in time i know he'll start worring about it. It just sucks so bad :(

pennylove Due July 9; 17 kids; 1 angel baby; Australia 1111 posts
24th Nov '12

been there , done that ....... leave, it saves you from being hurt, it was a dick he was stringing me along for ages and i stayed around even when he began seeing someone else. never again!

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting Aria's Mommy&Daddy:" He broke up with me, & we agreed id live there for a little & ee where our hearts were at. But then some ... [snip!] ... thats my plan. Im going to act like i dont care anymore & in time i know he'll start worring about it. It just sucks so bad :("


Yeah he's just keeping you as back up. He wants to see what else is out there and if he can't find anyone better in his eyes he thinks he can just come right back to you.
Just keep telling yourself it's over and move on. Stay strong!!

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" Yeah he's just keeping you as back up. He wants to see what else is out there and if he can't find anyone ... [snip!] ... in his eyes he thinks he can just come right back to you. Just keep telling yourself it's over and move on. Stay strong!!"


:!:



I agree 100%.

Aria's Mommy&Daddy Due December 18 (boy); 1 child; Mesa, Arizona 806 posts
24th Nov '12

Its just so annoying that he can play games so easy after everything.. But im just gonna' let him go. If its meant it'll come back to us in time. But i wont go back with him unless there are some BIG changes. Do you guys think people can change??

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
24th Nov '12
Quoting Aria's Mommy&Daddy:" Its just so annoying that he can play games so easy after everything.. But im just gonna' let him go. ... [snip!] ... come back to us in time. But i wont go back with him unless there are some BIG changes. Do you guys think people can change??"


Yes my fiance did but he had a drug problem and I'm the one that left him. It took 8 months but he DID get better eventually after a shitty court battle and we ended up getting back together after 8 months. In that time though, I moved out, dated other guys, never even thought of us ever getting back together as a possibility. He completely shocked me when he finally did change.

Aria's Mommy&Daddy Due December 18 (boy); 1 child; Mesa, Arizona 806 posts
25th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Will☮Creedence:</b>" Yes my fiance did but he had a drug problem and I'm the one that left him. It took 8 months but he DID ... [snip!] ... never even thought of us ever getting back together as a possibility. He completely shocked me when he finally did change."</blockquote>




My ex smokes alot of weed but thats about it, he thinks he either has graves disease or is bipolar he has alot of the side affects. Im trying to not care anymore its just hard!! But i hope one day I can say he shocked m with big changes hes made!

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
25th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Aria's Mommy&Daddy:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Will☮Creedence:</b>" Yes my fiance did but he had a drug ... [snip!] ... affects. Im trying to not care anymore its just hard!! But i hope one day I can say he shocked m with big changes hes made!"</blockquote>



Yeah idc about pot he was addicted to heroin. We both smoke pot anyway.
But if your ex has problems like that then he should probably get help.