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Madi's*Mama Due November 2; 1 child; Holland, Michigan 7391 posts
Nov 25th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting s00nt0b04:</b>" Might have to. Best idea yet. Guess I will snapping as a last resort. "</blockquote>



Yeah I was def angry when it happened (so it didnt go how it should have and I was really mean about it :oops: ) but I've never had to ask him to help again and in fact he's offered to get up with dd or bath her or wash dishes. I got him a super awesome Christmas present to say thanks though :) I think the big change came when he kept an eye on dd all day basically because I was busy so he did it all for a few days and now he understands that it's not easy lol

s00nt0b04 Due April 23 (boy); 3 kids; Louisville, Kentucky 477 posts
Nov 25th '12
Quoting Carol :):" <blockquote><b>Quoting s00nt0b04:</b>" Might have to. Best idea yet. Guess I will ... [snip!] ... an eye on dd all day basically because I was busy so he did it all for a few days and now he understands that it's not easy lol"


Great idea! Treat like a kid in the aspect of rewarding them. Hmm. Good plan.

Prttymommy3 3 kids; Savannah, Georgia 642 posts
Nov 25th '12

OP it sounds like you just feel a little unappreciated. I am going through this also unfortunately so I have no advice. I hope things get better for you. :D

s00nt0b04 Due April 23 (boy); 3 kids; Louisville, Kentucky 477 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting Prttymommy3:" OP it sounds like you just feel a little unappreciated. I am going through this also unfortunately so I have no advice. I hope things get better for you. :D"


Yeah sounds like it. My kids tell me thank yo all the time but DH rarely says it. I just want to be loved. This rough patch came out of nowhere.