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"Slut" Harlot O'Scara Japan 78 posts
25th Nov '12

Yes, I'm opening this can of worms.



Why do so many people feel the need to call women "sluts"? It's obviously an insult, it's obviously meant to be a hurtful name...and all because of a woman's sex life? I just don't understand.



Why does the number of sex partners a woman has need to earn her a hurtful name? And how many people must a woman sleep with before she is a "slut"? Who decides this magic number?



Why is the way a woman dresses a reason to call her a hurtful name like "slut"? Shouldn't we be able to dress however we want without people calling us awful names?



I honestly think we need to eliminate the whole idea of a "slut" from our culture. Sexuality is an intensely personal thing and I don't think it's fair to judge anyone so harshly for it.



Thoughts?

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
25th Nov '12

I don't think it's necessarily the number.



The only time I refer to people as sluts is
A.) They have slept with quite a few dudes that I KNOW of in a very short amount of time
B.) They dress likes sluts
C.) They act like sluts, i.e. making out with random dudes all the time

. , Richmond, VA, United States 74771 posts
status 25th Nov '12

Why don't we eliminate all hurtful words and insults?

Lilly and Laya's momma 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Chesapeake, Virginia 7824 posts
25th Nov '12

I always say I used to be a slut because I was just out for sex in my younger years8)

XxWhite_RosexX 1 child; United Kingdom 1962 posts
25th Nov '12

i agree in some way men can sleep around all they want but women are the bad ones

White Chocolate Milk 1 child; Chelsea, Alabama 12303 posts
25th Nov '12

Alright captain save a slut.



Honestly I don't think that everyone who is called a slut deserves it but if you have a 10 guy train on you the best terminology doesnt come to mind. And it isn't about the number of people you sleep with really. It's how you act about it. You have all the right in the world to hop on as many dicks as you want but I also have the right to feel whatever way I want about you.



And the clothing thing, just no. Dressing sexy is different than barely wearing anything. You don't have to show off a lot of skin just to look sexy. More times than not it ends up looking trashy. I'm all for women showing off the goodies they have but in a tasteful manner. b**bs and ass hanging out with flashes of your hooha is not appealing.

Harlot O'Scara Japan 78 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Smartass *TTC*:" I don't think it's necessarily the number. The only time I refer to people as sluts is A.) They have ... [snip!] ... a very short amount of time B.) They dress likes sluts C.) They act like sluts, i.e. making out with random dudes all the time"


....Those are still all really stupid reasons to judge someone so harshly. What does it matter if a girl is doing any of that? What concern is it of yours? Why call her names?

☆º×ß¡±©µ×º☆ Due September 18 (girl); 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Centralia, Washington 45391 posts
status 25th Nov '12

Im a slut yeeeehaw!

XxWhite_RosexX 1 child; United Kingdom 1962 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Harlot O'Scara:" ....Those are still all really stupid reasons to judge someone so harshly. What does it matter if a girl is doing any of that? What concern is it of yours? Why call her names?"


who called you a slut?

Harlot O'Scara Japan 78 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting XxWhite_RosexX:" who called you a slut?"


Uh. Nobody. Not sure what your point is.

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50791 posts
25th Nov '12

I'm not around anyone who says slut...... Different kind of people I suppose

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Harlot O'Scara:" ....Those are still all really stupid reasons to judge someone so harshly. What does it matter if a girl is doing any of that? What concern is it of yours? Why call her names?"


Eh. I used to be a slut. I admit i used to be a slut.
I typically don't call them sluts to their face. It's more of a "Hey BFF, have you seen that f**king slut around lately?"

Yurvette [♥] 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Hyrule Castle, LZ, San Marino 36500 posts
25th Nov '12
Harlot O'Scara Japan 78 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Smartass *TTC*:" Eh. I used to be a slut. I admit i used to be a slut. I typically don't call them sluts to their face. It's more of a "Hey BFF, have you seen that f**king slut around lately?""


But that's just it though. Why? Why is it so horrible that you must call someone names because of PERSONAL choices they make that don't concern you?

user banned Due November 7 (boy); 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" I hate the word slut. I think people shouldn't down a woman because of her sex life. What do you call ... [snip!] ... life. What do you call a woman who is now in a stable relationship but at one time was very promiscuous? A recovered slut? "


Yes, I accept recovered slut.
Or Slut in remission.