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Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Smartass *TTC*:" I don't think so because I wear gray suits and pearls and I normally get judged as being "vintagy" lol"


haha I was just being sarcastic! But yeah, I've got my "classy outfits" that I wear for work, my "mom outfits" for everyday and my downright slutty outfits for SO :wink:



I guess I'm a classy mommy slut! :D:D:D

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50677 posts
25th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Harlot O'Scara:</b>" I think the point isn't to stop judging in general - the point is that there is an inequity in female ... [snip!] ... people wouldn't call women "sluts" if female sexuality were not considered a negative, shameful thing in our culture. "</blockquote>




I live in a very liberal area hell there is a nudist colony not far from my house. I don't hear slut, wh**e, etc like at all. I think some of it has to do with location.

user banned Due November 7; 1 child; Dayton, Ohio 26853 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" haha I was just being sarcastic! But yeah, I've got my "classy outfits" that I wear for work, my "mom ... [snip!] ... for work, my "mom outfits" for everyday and my downright slutty outfits for SO :wink: I guess I'm a classy mommy slut! :D:D:D "

Oh I like that! I personally don't care if girls call each others sluts or wh**es, it's just part of life. I am not worried about it, no one calls me a slut lol.



Come to think of it, when I was a slut no one called me a slut. I think I was a secret slut.

Harlot O'Scara Japan 78 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Silly Mily's Momma ♡:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Harlot O'Scara:</b>" ....Those are still all really stupid ... [snip!] ... what I'd she's breastfeeding their baby and the baby gets it? I just think its wrong and it can affect a bunch of people."


Diseases can be spread by people who have a small number of partners too. That is an issue of safe sex and being safe and responsible, not an issue of your sex life in general.



I have "slept around" in my lifetime and I've never gotten a disease. I was smart and safe about it, it wasn't "luck", I was just careful. And I didn't have lots of sex because I didn't respect myself...to the contrary, I respected myself to give myself what I wanted without worrying what people would think.

LolaMcKitten Due May 30; 27 kids; Beverly Hills, California 15496 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Smartass *TTC*:" Oh I like that! I personally don't care if girls call each others sluts or wh**es, it's just part of ... [snip!] ... it, no one calls me a slut lol. Come to think of it, when I was a slut no one called me a slut. I think I was a secret slut."


I had a similar issue, lol. Inhigh school, everyone called me a slut constantly and I only ever slept with one guy that I dated for two years.



When I DID sleep around a little bit, no one ever said anything. :lol:

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Smartass *TTC*:" Oh I like that! I personally don't care if girls call each others sluts or wh**es, it's just part of ... [snip!] ... it, no one calls me a slut lol. Come to think of it, when I was a slut no one called me a slut. I think I was a secret slut."


Same here!! hahaha



But, I've been called b***h and slut online because people didn't like me!



I do hate the term slut though, and b***h... and c**t... however, just because I don't like those words doesn't mean anyone is going to stop using them!

Hy'ska 2 kids; Washington 50677 posts
25th Nov '12

Lmao where are some of y'all hanging out? I never see any of that

LolaMcKitten Due May 30; 27 kids; Beverly Hills, California 15496 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Uh, when I can see someone's thong from the BOTTOM of their shorts, and they're exposing that to my ... [snip!] ... it concerns me. IDGAF what someone does in their own home. Once it comes into the public view.... I have an issue with it. "


This is my big issue, too. If you are in a club, 18+ - whatever, I don't care, bbut when you are out and about in public where there are children and I have to look at it, yes, it becomes my problem. I shouldn't have to shield my kids eyes when we walk through the mall because you can't be bothered to have manners or dress so that your private areas aren't covered. I don't need my kids seeing that shit.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Uh, when I can see someone's thong from the BOTTOM of their shorts, and they're exposing that to my ... [snip!] ... it concerns me. IDGAF what someone does in their own home. Once it comes into the public view.... I have an issue with it. "


You have to deal with people in the public however. Not everyone holds you personal views on modesty, and child rearing. Someone is not a slut just because you have an issue with things.

LolaMcKitten Due May 30; 27 kids; Beverly Hills, California 15496 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Brink:" Lmao where are some of y'all hanging out? I never see any of that"


When I lived in Buffalo, it was WAY worse than it is down here in GA, but when I lived in Richmond VA when I was in college, it was crazy.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Brink:" Lmao where are some of y'all hanging out? I never see any of that"


Not anywhere they I have been that's for sure.

LolaMcKitten Due May 30; 27 kids; Beverly Hills, California 15496 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" You have to deal with people in the public however. Not everyone holds you personal views on modesty, and child rearing. Someone is not a slut just because you have an issue with things."


Porn is 18+, right? You get in trouble for showing anyone under 18 porno - some of the shit I have seen is basically porn - it's called respect, some people have none.

Emily Thorne 2 kids; Quetzaltenango, Guatemala 26302 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Brink:" Lmao where are some of y'all hanging out? I never see any of that"


I don't either... super short shorts aren't really the style around here... low cut tops are, but usually with jeans and platform high heals.... and apparently muffin tops are in style at the moment... :?



But, I've yet to see a girl's ass during the day except a few hippies really (they aren't dressing slutty, though, more just refuse to pull their pants up high enough or put on a bra).

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting LolaMcKitten:" Porn is 18+, right? You get in trouble for showing anyone under 18 porno - some of the shit I have seen is basically porn - it's called respect, some people have none. "

No it's 18+ to PURCHASE porn. It's not actually illegal to watch porn at under 18. And even then that varies from state to state. And seeing 2 people f**k is not the same as a chick in a thong. Also how is that disrespecting someone?

LolaMcKitten Due May 30; 27 kids; Beverly Hills, California 15496 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" I don't either... super short shorts aren't really the style around here... low cut tops are, but usually ... [snip!] ... few hippies really (they aren't dressing slutty, though, more just refuse to pull their pants up high enough or put on a bra)."


Whatchya talkin about, muffin tops are always in style! :lol: