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my sex drive is so low! Jenny Cook Due February 26; 64 kids; Brisbane, Australia 99 posts
25th Nov '12

hey everyone, im 26weeks, and this whole pregnancy my sex drive has been so low i dont even want my partner to touch me apart from rubbing my belly :( i want to have sex with him, but i just cant seem to get in the mood ! even if we just start mucking around i dont want to finish it, i dont even want to start it, i dont understand i expected it to improve but it just wont, and he has to pay for it :( i know he is upset and thinks i just think he's repolsive, but i dont he still gets me hot under the collor, just not hot enough to get into it, someone help me !

lisa♥ TTC since Nov 2012; 1 child; USA 390 posts
25th Nov '12

It's apart of your pregnancy! Happened to me but worse. I wouldn't even sleep next to SO, sometimes it was so bad I wouldn't even allow him to rub my belly :x

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
25th Nov '12

I haven't had a sex drive this entire pregnancy. I don't like to initiate or even think about it but if he really wants it, I won't turn him down. It's not fair to close up shop just because of my lack of libido. He has needs too lol I really feel bad.

MrsK09 Due January 14; 50 kids; Kentucky 1866 posts
25th Nov '12

What is sex lol. I'm 32 weeks along and still don't have a sex drive. It hurts when we do it and I get annoyed when he touches me. :( Even if I'm not in the mood him going down on me for a little bit kinda gets me going, I just make him hurry.

lisa♥ TTC since Nov 2012; 1 child; USA 390 posts
25th Nov '12

You ladies that took one for the team are champs! :lol:
I allowed SO to try everything to turn me on a couple times with no hope in the end. I would just look at him and say "GTFO of me!" hahahah

Mamitita 4 kids; Louisiana 720 posts
25th Nov '12

phew I thought I was the only one. I was seriously just searching through post about no sex drive. Im due in june/july and I feel like i just dont want to be bothered or touched the very thought of sex makes me cringe. I just want to be in my own little bubble and DH is not a happy camper about it. But geeze constipation, bloating, vag pain and b**bs that hurt isnt exactly what I call a good time.

Jenny Cook Due February 26; 64 kids; Brisbane, Australia 99 posts
25th Nov '12

yeah well, i have tried letting my partner go down and everything , but it just annoys me when ever he touches me! i just want to bite his head off for even thinking about it, but i try and just let him go and get his part done, but the whole time im faking it and hoping he finishes soon, i tell him before we start just hurry up and finish or no deal, but he feels let down and i can see he doesnt enjoy it when i do that, so i try and just suffer in silence

Mamitita 4 kids; Louisiana 720 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Jenny Cook:" yeah well, i have tried letting my partner go down and everything , but it just annoys me when ever he ... [snip!] ... finish or no deal, but he feels let down and i can see he doesnt enjoy it when i do that, so i try and just suffer in silence"


LMAO that is me all the way. And I hate to ruin his great time but geeze i hate just laying there being nailed and thinking how long is this going to last? Ive tried so hard to get into it and everything but instead my mind just races in the other direction.

[38 weeks!] Due May 31; 1 child; Colorado 3032 posts
25th Nov '12

I try to have sex with my husband once a week. He'd like more, but I'm too tired and feel gross.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55982 posts
25th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting NevviesMom:</b>" I haven't had a sex drive this entire pregnancy. I don't like to initiate or even think about it but ... [snip!] ... won't turn him down. It's not fair to close up shop just because of my lack of libido. He has needs too lol I really feel bad."</blockquote>




Screw that. I close shop when I don't feel it!! His needs or not. My husband will also say that he prefers me to not just do it to pacify him because he can feel the difference and it leaves something to be desired.

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
25th Nov '12

Lol oh they always have to be quickies but he's happy regardless

whack a mole crazy Due January 23; Nebraska 2651 posts
25th Nov '12

Im 31 weeks and dont really have a sex drive. Kissing my boyfriend makes me feel sick. Sometimes i don't even like him touching my belly. We've even tried watching porn to keep me turned on and it doesnt help. There are times where i feel horny but as soon as he makes a move i loose it right away. Plus, it f**king hurts.

Lacie Heethuis-Roy Due November 23; Caledonia, Michigan 441 posts
25th Nov '12

yep mine went bye bye a long time ago like when i found out i was preggo it came back for about 2 weeks and i couldnt get enough 3x a day and wanted more hubby couldnt keep up some times hes lucky to get it once a month maybe 2 or 3 x in one week then its gone again im 40 weeks and almost 2 days started to do it again last week to start getting things moving told him maybe tomorrow i got appointment to get checked again wednesday last tuesday i was 1-2 centimeters 75% effaced and -1 station we did it 2 days before that appointment so maybe if i do it agian it might help at least im hopeing it will

Jenny Cook Due February 26; 64 kids; Brisbane, Australia 99 posts
25th Nov '12

oh yeah i can be horney, moment he touches me its gone!

i feell so bad, but ehhh i just cant do it !
and the longer we dont have sex the tighter i get and the more it f**king hurts like im having a baby already

JamesHill TTC since Apr 2012; Brisbane, California 1 posts
25th Nov '12


HI,
It is normal have low sex drive while pregnant. And this is different with everyone. I