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uiyh9y89y lisa♥ TTC since Nov 2012; 1 child; USA 390 posts
25th Nov '12

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LinzieBoBinzie Due June 26; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Western, NY, United States 4548 posts
status 25th Nov '12

go to the sex shop and buy some toys. ..no shame in that and it should spice things up...even just flavored lubes

LinzieBoBinzie Due June 26; 1 child; 1 angel baby; Western, NY, United States 4548 posts
status 25th Nov '12

or start talking dirty...ita awkward at first but my husband loves to hear he's doing good and making me feel good...plus it makes me feel sexy knowing I'm turning him on which is good for everyone in the long run

lisa♥ TTC since Nov 2012; 1 child; USA 390 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Lynnsay B:" go to the sex shop and buy some toys. ..no shame in that and it should spice things up...even just flavored lubes"

That suff doesn't help me :oops:



I just want to be able to enjoy having sex with him rather than having to finish myself off or just going to sleep out of boredom

*account deleted* New York 2562 posts
25th Nov '12

I have the same problem and i feel so bad! Only way I can really get off is by myself to be honest lol :x

lisa♥ TTC since Nov 2012; 1 child; USA 390 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Tiffany ღ:" I have the same problem and i feel so bad! Only way I can really get off is by myself to be honest lol :x"

Same here!!!! :lol:
It gets me so upset sometimes to see his facial expressions telling me he's enjoying it then there I am just giving him a joy ride with no pleasure to myself :x

Buckeye Due August 13; 3 kids; 1 angel baby; Mt Gilead, Ohio 882 posts
25th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Tiffany ღ:</b>" I have the same problem and i feel so bad! Only way I can really get off is by myself to be honest lol :x"</blockquote>




Me too, but DH is really good at foreplay and everything feels great. I just can never quite get there.

coffee-holic 4 kids; Maryland 1586 posts
25th Nov '12

Dont do it for him. Do it for you. Take advantage of him. He will find it very sexy. Boost your confidence find how you like it (grind, bounce, whatever feels best for you) & take what you want. Trust me both of you will enjoy it.

~*Wibbly Wobbly*~ 4 kids; Kansas 3041 posts
25th Nov '12

Communicate. Don't take it as a personal attack. He probably didn't even mean for it to sound the way it came out. Let him know you what you like and what turns your on and let him tell you and go from there.



I got complacent in my sex life with DH. It was hot and steamy then kids came along and it was quick humps when kids were sleeping ... quickies served him better than I. I would find myself just getting him off and either serving myself later or not at all. His foreplay sucked as well kinda had to teach him the ins and outs again.



No one knows your body better than yours. Have some Show and tell time.

*account deleted* New York 2562 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting lisa♥:" Same here!!!! :lol: It gets me so upset sometimes to see his facial expressions telling me he's enjoying it then there I am just giving him a joy ride with no pleasure to myself :x"


Yep same here! It sucks because I want to enjoy it as much as he is when we're doing it lmao :(

lisa♥ TTC since Nov 2012; 1 child; USA 390 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Froggy Mama:" Communicate. Don't take it as a personal attack. He probably didn't even mean for it to sound the way ... [snip!] ... well kinda had to teach him the ins and outs again. No one knows your body better than yours. Have some Show and tell time. "

Great advice!!!!
I guess my insecurities are what hold me from communicating with him during sex. I find myself asking him questions in my head :lol::lol:



He directed me the other night after saying that, he told me while riding him to use my hips more so he slides in and out of me while im sitting up or something like that. But my inner thighs were so sore I couldn't even manage that :x



I don't want to bore him as much as I am bored.

lisa♥ TTC since Nov 2012; 1 child; USA 390 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Tiffany ღ:" Yep same here! It sucks because I want to enjoy it as much as he is when we're doing it lmao :("

right! :lol:
you ever just stare at his face of enjoyment and get mad?

*account deleted* New York 2562 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting lisa♥:" right! :lol: you ever just stare at his face of enjoyment and get mad?"


Every. single. damn. time.... :x lol I'm like jeez can you share some of that? -_-

lisa♥ TTC since Nov 2012; 1 child; USA 390 posts
25th Nov '12
Quoting Tiffany ღ:" Every. single. damn. time.... :x lol I'm like jeez can you share some of that? -_-"

:lol:lol:
SO said to me one night "I wish you ladies could feel what we feel because you ladies have no idea how great it is" I was just like NO. FUCKING. SHIT. :roll:

coffee-holic 4 kids; Maryland 1586 posts
25th Nov '12

If he likes you on top maybe try reverse cowgirl.. if you lean forward & hold his legs or ankles its easier to get that in out movement & the new angle feels great. Plus he gets a great view of the action too.