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♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Jude the Super k******r:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:</b>" No at that point I was so pissed off that ... [snip!] ... Sit down and write out how you feel and have.him do the same,then read.it.out.loud,.NO.INTERUPTIONS. Then talk about it."
user banned California 36390 posts
26th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:</b>" I can try that but I think I need time to calm down, I just feel like this home is so dysfunctional. How can I raise my babies like that?"</blockquote>




Well if you don't want to leave, you have to work it out. I'm trying to work through things with my husband so I know how bad it sucks.

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Jude the Super k******r:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:</b>" I can try that but I think I need time to ... [snip!] ... you don't want to leave, you have to work it out. I'm trying to work through things with my husband so I know how bad it sucks."
user banned California 36390 posts
26th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:</b>" Yeah, it isn't as easy as some try to make it out. I mean I get it, I could easily say to someone else ... [snip!] ... heartbeat. I just isn't that simple, I HAVE to think about both of them. Thank you for talking to me, I need to get this out."</blockquote>




It's cool, I get it. My husband has an alcohol problem and.has a tendency to get mean when he drinks. He's getting better but.it's not.easy, not in the least.

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Jude the Super k******r:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:</b>" Yeah, it isn't as easy as some try to make ... [snip!] ... has an alcohol problem and.has a tendency to get mean when he drinks. He's getting better but.it's not.easy, not in the least."


I thought my SO had an alcohol problem too but turns out he has some sort of medical condition that causes him to "act" intoxicated when he is under a lot of stress.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:" It isn't about him being part of her life. I know he will fight me for custody and make my life when it comes to DD as difficult as possible."


You are the primary caregiver. The primary caregiver gets custody unless deemed unfit.

♥MOBAS♥ 2 kids; 1 angel baby; California 7198 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" You are the primary caregiver. The primary caregiver gets custody unless deemed unfit."


I have made an appointment with our therapist and am going to tell him how I feel about this whole situation and try to figure this out as two grown adults. I just want it to be peaceful and not a big fight.

user banned California 36390 posts
26th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Sonia[MOBAS]:</b>" I have made an appointment with our therapist and am going to tell him how I feel about this whole situation ... [snip!] ... about this whole situation and try to figure this out as two grown adults. I just want it to be peaceful and not a big fight."</blockquote>




That's great! I hope you can work it out!