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He Who Must Not Be Named 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59303 posts
status 26th Nov '12
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Being pregnant does not give you a free pass to act the way you want. I really hate that shit to be honest. "


I agree with that, too.



You are not some uninhibited, wild, uncontrollable being when you're pregnant.

wannaknow 2 kids; California 475 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Mommeee
Chels :3 Florida 2017 posts
26th Nov '12

No she messaged him first and when he didn't reply the first time she turned to me. And then started again after a few weeks went by yesterday. With the whole "I'm sorry I ruined your life." he said nothing to me about those messages. And then she messaged me. That kind of felt like egging on. Anyone miss the part where she's pregnant as well. I don't understand what's going, and the whole exes shouldn't talk to exes thing, I agree with to an extent. This is just really bothering me. Everyone's different. And being pregnant has made me a tad insecure.

user banned SAN FRANCISCO, CA, United States 24574 posts
26th Nov '12

Clearly his life wasn't ruined, she just wants some sort of validation from him. It's a little pathetic...I would let it go.

MysticWitchKat 2052 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Chelsea.J:" No she messaged him first and when he didn't reply the first time she turned to me. And then started ... [snip!] ... agree with to an extent. This is just really bothering me. Everyone's different. And being pregnant has made me a tad insecure."

Well tell him to tell her to back off some.

He Who Must Not Be Named 2 kids; Whiskey Dick Mountain, WA, United States 59303 posts
status 26th Nov '12
Quoting Chelsea.J:" No she messaged him first and when he didn't reply the first time she turned to me. And then started ... [snip!] ... agree with to an extent. This is just really bothering me. Everyone's different. And being pregnant has made me a tad insecure."


I would really just try to ignore it unless she keeps going.

Blank™ Beverly Hills, CA, United States 5264 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting wannaknow:" Or maybe she has some guilt over how their relationship ended and isn't putting it in the best way. ... [snip!] ... don't talk".. There are a lot of ways to take that. Could also be she thinks she hurt him too much for him to fully recover."



True, but I don't know the extent of their relationship. Even then though, she still continues to give too much credit to herself in his life.

Chels :3 Florida 2017 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting MysticWitchKat:" Being pregnant does not give you a free pass to act the way you want. I really hate that shit to be honest. "


Whoa! Lol what the hell. I'm a bit insecure? That's acting however I want? What's your issue. Get off my thread if it annoys you. I posted about my relationship, and something that was bothering me in that relationship. If it annoyed you that I mentioned being pregnant might have me overreacting a little. Than bite me, it's true. The nightmares of being stranded alone pregnant suck, and when things IRL get to me I panic a little more than usual.

wannaknow 2 kids; California 475 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Mommeee
Vile Tramp 2 kids; New York 32363 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Chelsea.J:" Whoa! Lol what the hell. I'm a bit insecure? That's acting however I want? What's your issue. Get off ... [snip!] ... true. The nightmares of being stranded alone pregnant suck, and when things IRL get to me I panic a little more than usual."


She wasn't addressing you.

Chels :3 Florida 2017 posts
26th Nov '12

These replies are coming so fast sorry for snapping a little. I'm getting confused I can't keep up. Lol,.

Chels :3 Florida 2017 posts
26th Nov '12

That's what I mean to the post above mine^

Tarynosaurus Rex San Antonio, Texas 1271 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Chelsea.J:" She messaged him the other day ( and we share a phone and have that whole trust thing so yeah I saw the ... [snip!] ... with. And no it's like I'm living in one of my nightmares. Or the beginning of one. With another ex. I'm being silly aren't I? "


I think it's really stupid of her to continue bringing up their past relationship. Sounds to me like she isn't over him, but as long as he isn't saying or doing anything inappropriate I would let it be.

Chels :3 Florida 2017 posts
26th Nov '12

Just humoring her. Like "You didn't ruin my life lol don't worry about it."
she just erks me i guess I was overreacting a little. Just bugs me.