It's not that I don't think he'll take care of them...I know he would take great care of them. I just don't want to mess up my routine with my 5 month old. He's high needs and doesn't adapt to new situations easily.
Quoting Fantastic Faith ♥:" Eh. Some men are great fathers but are just forgetful. Or do things differently. If I go out and DH ... [snip!] ... to do things because I'm worried he'll forget. And he's a wonderful dad. He just does things differently and it stresses me out"
This!!! My hubby is awesome but I remind him of stuff..then he tells me 'Yes cause I am a child" haha
My SO isn't even my sons biological father and he is an even better parent than I am - I trust him 100% and I wouldn't trust his bio dad with him as far as I could throw him.
I would never purposefully have a child with someone who I didn't trust to care for my children.