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Lilly and Laya's momma Due May 25; 2 kids; 4 angel babies; Chesapeake, Virginia 7829 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" You would dump someone you loved because they were going through an issue? That's not what love is. You ... [snip!] ... they are dealing with personal and life situations. You're suppose to be there for them. You must be one shitty ass gf/wife."

This!! Sounds like when things get difficult she is the type that will just say F U and leave

Bawse Litchfield, NY, United States 70395 posts
26th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" You would dump someone you loved because they were going through an issue? That's not what love is. You ... [snip!] ... they are dealing with personal and life situations. You're suppose to be there for them. You must be one shitty ass gf/wife."</blockquote>




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Executionista 3 kids; Chatsworth, Georgia 565 posts
26th Nov '12

He said he's depressed and he doesn't think the fighting will change. He said he needs a break from everything and a change and he wants to leave by himself. But he won't go

JΔS Georgia 75721 posts
status 26th Nov '12
Quoting Executionista:" He said he's depressed and he doesn't think the fighting will change. He said he needs a break from everything and a change and he wants to leave by himself. But he won't go"


I've gone into a depression and was in complete denial about it. So just because he says he isn't depressed, doesn't mean he truly isn't. What has been going on with him lately? Any changes in life? Has he done this before?

Severus Snape 2 kids; Tennessee 3550 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Executionista:" He did tell me he's depressed but he's not good with communicating. He said he doesn't want to be with me, yet he won't leave? That's the part that's strange to me"


This is why I said dump him. He may very well be depressed but If a guy was telling me that he didn't want to be with me anymore and felt no emotions towards me then I'd leave him. No reason to stick around with someone who doesn't want to be with me. But maybe that's not what's going on. It was just my first impression.

Severus Snape 2 kids; Tennessee 3550 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" You would dump someone you loved because they were going through an issue? That's not what love is. You ... [snip!] ... they are dealing with personal and life situations. You're suppose to be there for them. You must be one shitty ass gf/wife."


That's not what I meant. I was under the impression that he just walked up to her and said "I don't feel anything towards you anymore and I don't want to be with you." not that he was going through a hard time. Obviously if he's going through something than I would say differently. Maybe I had the wrong impression. Way to be a bitch though :D

Severus Snape 2 kids; Tennessee 3550 posts
26th Nov '12

If it is just depression and not him being an asshole then obviously I'd recommend supporting him in any way you can. Recommend therapy or even medication and watch for any negative signs. I hope he feels better and you both work it all out.

BeccaSauraus 1 child; Baton Rouge, Louisiana 1892 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Executionista:" So my boyfriend of 2 years tells me the day before thanksgiving he's lost all emotion toward me, but ... [snip!] ... income and the total ability to leave. We've been arguing more lately, but I didn't know it would come to this. Any advice?"


This literally just happened to my friend. Turns out he was cheating on her, and now they're divorced.

Severus Snape 2 kids; Tennessee 3550 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting BeccaSauraus:" This literally just happened to my friend. Turns out he was cheating on her, and now they're divorced."


Exactly my concerns. Good luck OP!! I really hope it all works out :)

❀Sarah❀ 2 kids; Cocking, EU, Europe 121521 posts
26th Nov '12

I think he'd be more eager to leave her if he had another relationship going.

BeccaSauraus 1 child; Baton Rouge, Louisiana 1892 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" I think he'd be more eager to leave her if he had another relationship going."


That's what I thought when my friend told me about him acting this way. She came home one day to him fucking another woman. So, it happens. He said he had no feelings and did exactly the same things OP is describing.