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greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting NinaBonita:" You are so correct but its been more then 5 yrs since me and the ex have had nothing to do with eachother."


My point is, if you're madly in love with him and want to be with him the rest of your life, marriage, kids etc like he is THE ONE then I don't think you should throw that away just for your ex's feelings.
But if it's nothing serious like that then it's not worth it.

Preggo Bear Claw Due May 3 (boy); 64 kids; Firestone Park, CA, United States 691 posts
Nov 26th '12

... Not an option ... Don't do it

NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting InkDMomma:" That just sounds like the rest of your life is going to be nonstop drama. RUN!"


Good point but that could always be blocked out your life

InkDMomma 35 kids; Clinton Township, Michigan 27418 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting NinaBonita:" Good point but that could always be blocked out your life"


so you're going to block out entire family events and stuff like that the rest of your child's life? for some d**k?
yeah... not worth it at all.

NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" My point is, if you're madly in love with him and want to be with him the rest of your life, marriage, ... [snip!] ... think you should throw that away just for your ex's feelings. But if it's nothing serious like that then it's not worth it."


Im loving your feedback sounds like every bit of what my family has given me and yes pretty much it has been serious and strong i could careless what the ex thinks or has to say it was his fault i left him i could never imagen myself in a situation like this but we cant control what life has to offer us only God knows why and everything happens for a reason

user banned (boy); 2 kids; f**king, Austria 36337 posts
Nov 26th '12
x Quoting NinaBonita:" Im loving your feedback sounds like every bit of what my family has given me and yes pretty much it ... [snip!] ... in a situation like this but we cant control what life has to offer us only God knows why and everything happens for a reason"


Have fun telling the kiddos their uncle is going to be their step daddy.



Yikes.

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting NinaBonita:" Im loving your feedback sounds like every bit of what my family has given me and yes pretty much it ... [snip!] ... in a situation like this but we cant control what life has to offer us only God knows why and everything happens for a reason"


What does this guy have to say about everything?

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
Nov 26th '12

I don't live in Salem (days of our lives lol)and wouldn't want to have to explain to my kids how their brother is also their cousin.



I just wouldn't cross those boundaries.

Momma +2 Girls 2 kids; Indiana 3612 posts
Nov 26th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting InkDMomma:</b>" so you're going to block out entire family events and stuff like that the rest of your child's life? for some d**k? yeah... not worth it at all."</blockquote>



!!!!!



Id definitely be more worried about the emotional health of the child from being put in this situation also.

NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting InkDMomma:" so you're going to block out entire family events and stuff like that the rest of your child's life? for some d**k? yeah... not worth it at all."


My kids have never had anything serious to do with that side of the family due to the fact that the father wasnt ready to be a real dad to them and because he would pick friends and alcohol over his kids so that will never be an issue and D*** has nothing to do about this!

NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting Momma +2 Girls:" I personally would never want my daughter to have an Uncle Step Dad..."
NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" Lol. That's gross, atleast go for the dad."


Could never see myself back with him he has so much growing up to do!

NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" What does this guy have to say about everything?"


He says nobody can control whats goes on and doesnt see anything wrong with it i mean yea thats his brother but shit happens and life goes on

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting NinaBonita:" He says nobody can control whats goes on and doesnt see anything wrong with it i mean yea thats his brother but shit happens and life goes on"


If you really want to go for it then nobody can change your mind. Just keep it a secret for a LONG time. Idk how old your kids are, but if they're old enough to understand that's their uncle then don't kiss him or hold his hand or anything in front of them and do not move in together!!
This is a situation that needs to be taken very carefully and cautiously.

MyPurrrtyBabies 3 kids; Dothan, AL, United States 8386 posts
Nov 26th '12
Quoting NinaBonita:" He says nobody can control whats goes on and doesnt see anything wrong with it i mean yea thats his brother but shit happens and life goes on"


Sounds like your mind is made up ........so, Good Luck with that!