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NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" Lol. That's gross, atleast go for the dad."


Could never see myself back with him he has so much growing up to do!

NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" What does this guy have to say about everything?"


He says nobody can control whats goes on and doesnt see anything wrong with it i mean yea thats his brother but shit happens and life goes on

greenmamabecky☮ TTC since Jul 2013; 18 kids; Enfield, Connecticut 20987 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting NinaBonita:" He says nobody can control whats goes on and doesnt see anything wrong with it i mean yea thats his brother but shit happens and life goes on"


If you really want to go for it then nobody can change your mind. Just keep it a secret for a LONG time. Idk how old your kids are, but if they're old enough to understand that's their uncle then don't kiss him or hold his hand or anything in front of them and do not move in together!!
This is a situation that needs to be taken very carefully and cautiously.

MyPurrrtyBabies 3 kids; Alabama 8386 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting NinaBonita:" He says nobody can control whats goes on and doesnt see anything wrong with it i mean yea thats his brother but shit happens and life goes on"


Sounds like your mind is made up ........so, Good Luck with that!

NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Will☮Creedence:" If you really want to go for it then nobody can change your mind. Just keep it a secret for a LONG time. ... [snip!] ... in front of them and do not move in together!! This is a situation that needs to be taken very carefully and cautiously."


Carefully it has and will be taken care of with little steps just to make sure its something we really want!!

NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting MyPurrrtyBabies:" Sounds like your mind is made up ........so, Good Luck with that! "


:)

T + H = My World 2 kids; 1 angel baby; United Kingdom 3445 posts
26th Nov '12

personally i could never do that, but i do and have seen it from the other side and i can work, my grandad married two sisters (not at the same time), the first sister he had 4 children with, one of which is my dad and two died (one SIDS and one was hit by a car at 3), because of these losses my nan ran away and left the children with my grandad, he couldnt cope on his own so my great aunty stepped in to help out, through their grief they found comfort in each other and went on to marry and have 3 children of their own, i class these as my uncles even though they are also my dads cousins, they have been married 30 plus years..so yes it can work and people should eventually come round

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; South Land, CA, United States 120724 posts
status 26th Nov '12

You dont need opinions, your mind is already made up.

NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting T + H = My World:" personally i could never do that, but i do and have seen it from the other side and i can work, my grandad ... [snip!] ... are also my dads cousins, they have been married 30 plus years..so yes it can work and people should eventually come round "


So true thats kind of how it started he saw that my ex was doing nothing for his kids like a real father should and saw everything he was putting me through and just wanted to be there for me and the babies but more and more we are growing among eachother and feelings are building up for one another!

NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" You dont need opinions, your mind is already made up."


Never to late to ask rather someone mind is made up or not!

aℓyssa Due October 21 (girl); 1 child; Manhattan, KS, United States 18874 posts
26th Nov '12

One of my best friend parents had her when they were seniors in high school, split, then a year later married her father's, brother and had kids with him.



So, her sister is her cousin, and her brother and sisters are only cousins, not siblings. It's a long mess of a situation and honestly, if you don't know them, you assume there's insest somewhere.



So, no. I would never. :lol:

T + H = My World 2 kids; 1 angel baby; United Kingdom 3445 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting NinaBonita:" So true thats kind of how it started he saw that my ex was doing nothing for his kids like a real father ... [snip!] ... be there for me and the babies but more and more we are growing among eachother and feelings are building up for one another!"


feelings - something you cant control

NinaBonita Dallas, Texas 52 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting T + H = My World:" feelings - something you cant control "


:)

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting T + H = My World:" feelings - something you cant control "


Incorrect. You can control your feelings. You can also control the impulse to act on said feelings.

N's Momma☆ 1 child; Spain 2346 posts
26th Nov '12

Hell no. That's way too close for my liking. He's your kids UNCLE. :?