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sadelove 17 kids; ROSLINDALE, Massachusetts 192 posts
26th Nov '12

wait one more thing your 15 & planned this pregnancy ? whyyyyy you got your whole life ahead of you , did you graduate highschool yet ? i am in no way or posistion to be condescending or judgemental because im 19 & 8 months (im also married) , but 15 is so young :/ are you ready for this ? at the end of the day your still a mother so you know whats right for yourself and child. But feel free to inbox me if you ever want to talk privately . ill be open to listen & give advice ! (:

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 21595 posts
26th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting sadelove:</b>" wait one more thing your 15 & planned this pregnancy ? whyyyyy you got your whole life ahead of you ... [snip!] ... and child. But feel free to inbox me if you ever want to talk privately . ill be open to listen & give advice ! (:"</blockquote>




If you would have read the thread she was on birth control

bunnys' mummy Due September 12; Trowbridge, United Kingdom 19 posts
26th Nov '12

A thanks to the people suporting me! Kye(the dad) has left school and getting a job! trying and so am I! she's resting in bed now but ill tell her tomorrow! thanks again! also sadelove plan it, its the last thing me ad kye wanted but its happened ad have supportive friends ad kyes family are supportive (sorry for any spelling mistakes not very good at it :()

sadelove 17 kids; ROSLINDALE, Massachusetts 192 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting sadelove:</b>" wait one more thing your 15 & planned this ... [snip!] ... ill be open to listen & give advice ! (:"</blockquote> If you would have read the thread she was on birth control"

yeah but go to her page. it says ive had 2 miscarriages and i want a baby now.. lah blah blah.

Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25368 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting bunnys' mummy:" A thanks to the people suporting me! Kye(the dad) has left school and getting a job! trying and so am ... [snip!] ... its happened ad have supportive friends ad kyes family are supportive (sorry for any spelling mistakes not very good at it :() "


Tell him not to quit school. School is the foundation to any future you guys will have. STAY IN SCHOOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Both of you. Go online if you have to, work part time, etc.. but the worst thing you could do is quit school. :(

bunnys' mummy Due September 12; Trowbridge, United Kingdom 19 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting bunnys' mummy:" A thanks to the people suporting me! Kye(the dad) has left school and getting a job! trying and so am ... [snip!] ... its happened ad have supportive friends ad kyes family are supportive (sorry for any spelling mistakes not very good at it :() "

Didn't plan it*

☮Sugar Magnolia 1 child; Indiana 18293 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting bunnys' mummy:" A thanks to the people suporting me! Kye(the dad) has left school and getting a job! trying and so am ... [snip!] ... its happened ad have supportive friends ad kyes family are supportive (sorry for any spelling mistakes not very good at it :() "


He dropped out of school?



Well, that was a bad decision. He needs a job, but if he's under 18, he can't work too many hours anyway. You should really try to encourage him to go back, it's best for all of your futures.



As for you, stay in school, look like crazy for a job, and good luck. It's going to be hard, but worth it.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 21595 posts
26th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting sadelove:</b>" yeah but go to her page. it says ive had 2 miscarriages and i want a baby now.. lah blah blah."</blockquote>




Well I had two losses when I got pregnant with my DD and I wanted another one but I didn't plan it. You can want a baby but not plan it

bunnys' mummy Due September 12; Trowbridge, United Kingdom 19 posts
26th Nov '12

he didn't drop out he goes to collage since he's 16 h does part time corse so he's still getting a education!

sadelove 17 kids; ROSLINDALE, Massachusetts 192 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting HopingforaMiracle:" <blockquote><b>Quoting sadelove:</b>" yeah but go to her page. it says ive had 2 miscarriages ... [snip!] ... two losses when I got pregnant with my DD and I wanted another one but I didn't plan it. You can want a baby but not plan it"

lol you just want to disagree huh ? im not judging her, if anything im one of the nicer ones on this thread . you dont need to go back and fourth with me. she knows whats up with her situation we dont. so no need to act like we do.

Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25368 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting sadelove:" lol you just want to disagree huh ? im not judging her, if anything im one of the nicer ones on this ... [snip!] ... . you dont need to go back and fourth with me. she knows whats up with her situation we dont. so no need to act like we do."


She didnt say you weren't nice and she isn't judging anyone. You're insisting that the OP planned this baby based on what it says in her profile. That girl was just saying it's possible to want a baby but have one on accident. Shit, that just happened to me and I'm almost 35.

bunnys' mummy Due September 12; Trowbridge, United Kingdom 19 posts
26th Nov '12

Also I put 'fingers crossed...' to that it happen again not meaning want one always been that little bit of want but mean it like that sorry for ay confusion

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 21595 posts
26th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting sadelove:</b>" lol you just want to disagree huh ? im not judging her, if anything im one of the nicer ones on this ... [snip!] ... . you dont need to go back and fourth with me. she knows whats up with her situation we dont. so no need to act like we do."</blockquote>




No but I do know how to read and comprehend what I read. I'm not judging her. I know what happened in my situation

sadelove 17 kids; ROSLINDALE, Massachusetts 192 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Man. Bear. Pig.:" She didnt say you weren't nice and she isn't judging anyone. You're insisting that the OP planned this ... [snip!] ... girl was just saying it's possible to want a baby but have one on accident. Shit, that just happened to me and I'm almost 35."

i understand & maybe i thought she planned it because i miscarried with my husband in november 2011. and we tried again & now im 8 months pregnant. but im not trying to debate right now , i commented to the girl .

Ellie. 34 kids; Arizona 25368 posts
26th Nov '12

Also, what I think OP means in her profile, is that she has had 2 losses before so her fingers are crossed that she wont lose this pregnancy as well.