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Bri + 1.5 <3 Due October 20 (girl); 1 child; Florida 4350 posts
26th Nov '12

Oh wow. What a b***h. I'm sorry she was so quick to judge you. You did the right thing by getting him an appointment. And now you have proof to shove in her face.

Vodka Knockers 1 child; North Carolina 8066 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Naocorn:" Get a note and slap her with it. Diaper rash looks like a burn. Yeast kinda burns the skin. Doesn't mean you abuse your child. If you were, you wouldn't be taking such great care of it."

That's kind of what I thought.
I mean, unless I had something like Munchhausen syndrome (I think that's the right one), why would I intentionally burn my child and then go through the trouble of putting cream on it and changing bandages frequently? I assume if I were sadistic enough to burn a kid, I'd be sadistic enough to let the wound fester.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
26th Nov '12

I guess just be glad she cares enough to confront you about it. A lot of daycare providers don't give a shit.



Give her a doctor's note.

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting coℓton's mama.
Vodka Knockers 1 child; North Carolina 8066 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Spencer Pratt:" I'd change daycares personally. 1st of all if she suspects abuse she is not supposed to confront or ... [snip!] ... has seen his ped since and the cause of the rash has already been determined,. I'm sorry she was such an a*****e to you :( "

This is the second daycare I've had LO in. The first one (I seem to have horrible luck with daycares...) gave him cinnamon after he'd been going there for 9 months and I'd filled out, as well as his doctor, stacks of paper work saying no cinnamon. He had an allergic reaction, my mom was closer to the daycare so she left, bought benadryl and had to go administer it. His doctor since prescribed an epi-pen.
I loved this daycare though :( They're everything I wanted them to be, they're super super good with LO, and I really hate to move him again.

Bri + 1.5 <3 Due October 20 (girl); 1 child; Florida 4350 posts
26th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting bbbt:</b>" How is she a b***h for confronting someone she thinks burned her child? "</blockquote>




Umm, because she was so quick to judge her.

Vodka Knockers 1 child; North Carolina 8066 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting bbbt:" How is she a b***h for confronting someone she thinks burned her child? "

I don't think it's that she confronted me, I think it's the way she did it.
She could have went about the situation completely different, but she acted like I was guilty from the get go...

Arrynt 1 child; Michigan 456 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting bbbt:" How is she a b***h for confronting someone she thinks burned her child? "

What if she does that to someone actually harming their child and they take out the anger of it ON the kid? :/ She was in the wrong. She should've reported it if she felt that strongly about it.



I would take her the doctor note, then find another daycare.

Bri + 1.5 <3 Due October 20 (girl); 1 child; Florida 4350 posts
26th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Vodka Knockers:</b>" I don't think it's that she confronted me, I think it's the way she did it. She could have went about the situation completely different, but she acted like I was guilty from the get go..."</blockquote>




Exactly, that's really all I was trying to say...

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting coℓton's mama.
♀NoBoysAllowed 19 kids; San Diego, California 51862 posts
26th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Almyk:</b>" What if she does that to someone actually harming their child and they take out the anger of it ON the ... [snip!] ... She should've reported it if she felt that strongly about it. I would take her the doctor note, then find another daycare."</blockquote>




I'm sure that's protocol anyhow, but she probably wasn't sure about it and didn't want to cause any trouble if it was nothing. That's a bell that can't be unrung, ya know?

Dovahkiin 1 child; 1 angel baby; Kentucky 16776 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting Vodka Knockers:" I don't think it's that she confronted me, I think it's the way she did it. She could have went about the situation completely different, but she acted like I was guilty from the get go..."


Well I don't think you need to find another daycare, unless you feel really uncomfortable going back there. The woman obviously does care about your kid. But to stop any further accusations, I'd bring in the doctor's note that said it's a rash.

Robert Downey Jr. Zanzibar, Tanzania 16079 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting bbbt:" How is she a b***h for confronting someone she thinks burned her child? "


Well considering they arent supposed to confront the parent in the first place, that was out of line.

Vodka Knockers 1 child; North Carolina 8066 posts
26th Nov '12
Quoting ♀NoBoysAllowed:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Almyk:</b>" What if she does that to someone actually harming ... [snip!] ... wasn't sure about it and didn't want to cause any trouble if it was nothing. That's a bell that can't be unrung, ya know?"

I don't think that was her intention at all...
She refused to believe me when I said it was a diaper rash and kept saying it looked like a burn, and giving me that "Go ahead, tell me you beat your kid" look. That's why I gave up, walked away, got LO and called the doctor.

Carissa_099 Due June 3; 19 kids; Newport, Washington 206 posts
26th Nov '12

My daughter got an extreme version of fifths disease at 9 months it started around her eyes and hand.. looked like hives I took her to the er. They said it was a reaction to something and I needed to find it. The next day it was her entire body I rushed to the er thinking something wad horribly wrong. The Dr asked if I sprayed her with cleaner!!!!! I told him to get out of my room and to call my Dr and ask him to come in. He did and in some not so nice way informed the other Dr of his stupidity! It happens to the best of us. Take a note to the lady keep your daycare and smile every time you see her :)