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ChubbyCheekers 2 kids; New York 3117 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting ★Bαtgirl:" Because doing the EXACT thing she's claiming to have an issue with when it comes to him is SO mature! :wink: It's his dick. Why should he be restricted to when he touches it? "

Yeah, but she said she used to do it and ended up stopping because he had such a problem with it. So he's being a little hypocritical.

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 58398 posts
status 27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ★Bαtgirl:</b>" :!::!: This. OP, you're having sex when you ask, maybe he doesn't want to bother you knowing you may ... [snip!] ... satisfied, then rub one out yourself. If you are, then what's the problem here? At least he's not pestering you 3 times a day. "</blockquote>




Sometimes I prefer to do it myself quickly, I know my husband is the same way, especially in the shower.



The only thing that annoys me is when he calls me in using a panic voice and says "I'm gonna c*m wanna see? There's gonna be a lot!"



Ew.. Lol I hate that.

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
27th Nov '12

You find it disturbing that he has masturbated while you were talking to him? Uh wth, wouldn't that mean that YOU are in his mind, and it turns him on, so he touches himself? I'd personally find it endearing, if not hot as hell.

OhSoFKN Fabulous Due December 19 (girl); 1 child; Land O' Lakes, Florida 2314 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ★Bαtgirl:</b>" :!::!: This. OP, you're having sex ... [snip!] ... is when he calls me in using a panic voice and says "I'm gonna c*m wanna see? There's gonna be a lot!" Ew.. Lol I hate that."


lol the c*m part literally made me want to barf.



my gag reflexes automatically trigger when I see it or think about it haha

:)mommyandmore(: Due February 27; 1 child; Dayton, TX, United States 733 posts
27th Nov '12

I don't do that because I know it bothers him. I try to consider his feelings and I feel he walks over mine. I don't say anything about him masterbating even though I don't agree with it. I just have a problem with the fact that he'll ask me to come in the bathroom and then does it anyway and that he does that more often than do anything with me.



And I failed to mention, he also sits in the bathroom when I shower to talk to me so I'm not just "pestering the man" and "wont leave him alone".

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 58398 posts
status 27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" You find it disturbing that he has masturbated while you were talking to him? Uh wth, wouldn't that mean ... [snip!] ... that YOU are in his mind, and it turns him on, so he touches himself? I'd personally find it endearing, if not hot as hell."</blockquote>



Yeah, we must be weird, that would make me feel loved. Haha

♥ Mrs. S ♥ Due September 20; 2 kids; Venezuela 13472 posts
status 27th Nov '12
Quoting Ashley Yarber:" We do, but it has to go around my son's schedule. I can't get up and have sex whenever, even if I want ... [snip!] ... But he's calling me in there and being sneaky while I'm having a conversation with him. That, to me, is crossing the line."


I have 2 kids. A 2 year old and a 1 year old. Still, DH and I find time to have sex. If you wait for a perfect time it's never going to happen. Pop a bottle in your LOs mouth while he/she is in the crib in the morning and go at it. Find ways to find time.
If I can find time with 2 little kids you can def. find time with one. It's a challenge but you can do it!

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 58398 posts
status 27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ★Bαtgirl:</b>" :lol: OMG. That's funny, he actually does that? Kinda goes against the point of masturbating, lol!!"</blockquote>




Lmao, he gets so proud of it, if he gets distance with the shot he's on top of the world, so he needs a witness.



He's gone as far as videotaping it with his phone and sending it to me. Lmao, f**king GROSS

justwanttodelete Due July 23 (girl); Switzerland 1021 posts
27th Nov '12

i would be upset that he rather do himself then do me. At least he was masturbating to you and not porn. Maybe he finds it easier since you have a baby...try to spice it up one day when baby is sleeping or someone else is watching baby...surprise him...put something sexy on and jump him. See if that changes things. Talking to him about how you feel is important. We do it when baby is sleeping or at my moms house. You have to use every opportunity...granted i understand sometimes your too tired. My SO doesnt masturbate often...he might do it once a month if need be. good luck.

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" You find it disturbing that he has ... [snip!] ... find it endearing, if not hot as hell."</blockquote> Yeah, we must be weird, that would make me feel loved. Haha"


Hell, the sound of my voice making him touch himself? I'd feel sexy as f**k lol

:)mommyandmore(: Due February 27; 1 child; Dayton, TX, United States 733 posts
27th Nov '12

Trust me, he isn't doing it because of what I'm talking to him about.



I could be talking about Alek being constipated and he'll be jerking it behind the shower without me knowing. I remember a few times I'd be asking him a question and he wouldn't respond. I'd ask again and he'd say, "What?" But I didn't really think anything of it.



It's like he asks me to come talk to him, then tunes me out so he can get off. Why even ask me to come in the bathroom is my point?

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 58398 posts
status 27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting OhSoFKN Fabulous:</b>" lol the c*m part literally made me want to barf. my gag reflexes automatically trigger when I see it or think about it haha"</blockquote>



Omg, me too. He'll be like "Amanda!!! AMMMMANDA!!! Come quick!!" And I'll run in to make sure he's okay and he'll do it right as I open the curtain. And be like "THAT was impressive"



No.. Wtf. Ill just look at his with a dead expression like.. Wow, good job.

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
27th Nov '12

Op, honestly, be glad its in the shower. SO can't get off himself without porn or pictures. He doesn't ever do it in the shower(to my knowledge of course)

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley Yarber:</b>" I don't do that because I know it bothers him. I try to consider his feelings and I feel he walks over ... [snip!] ... he also sits in the bathroom when I shower to talk to me so I'm not just "pestering the man" and "wont leave him alone"."</blockquote>




Ok where is your son if you can go into the bathroom to talk to him, he obviously isn't up and running around the house. just get in the shower with him. He's going to be having an orgasm anyway, you might as well get yours.



And having kids makes shower time one of the only times we actually get to be intimate. Lol the kids are either asleep, crafting, or watching a movie so they don't bother us and we get to be together.

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting OhSoFKN Fabulous:</b>" lol the c*m part literally made me want ... [snip!] ... the curtain. And be like "THAT was impressive" No.. Wtf. Ill just look at his with a dead expression like.. Wow, good job."


Damn you. I laughed so hard a little pee came out :oops: