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Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
Nov 27th '12

You find it disturbing that he has masturbated while you were talking to him? Uh wth, wouldn't that mean that YOU are in his mind, and it turns him on, so he touches himself? I'd personally find it endearing, if not hot as hell.

OhSoFKN Fabulous Due December 19 (girl); 1 child; Land O' Lakes, Florida 2314 posts
Nov 27th '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting ★Bαtgirl:</b>" :!::!: This. OP, you're having sex ... [snip!] ... is when he calls me in using a panic voice and says "I'm gonna c*m wanna see? There's gonna be a lot!" Ew.. Lol I hate that."


lol the c*m part literally made me want to barf.



my gag reflexes automatically trigger when I see it or think about it haha

:)mommyandmore(: 2 kids; Dayton, TX, United States 1941 posts
Nov 27th '12

I don't do that because I know it bothers him. I try to consider his feelings and I feel he walks over mine. I don't say anything about him masterbating even though I don't agree with it. I just have a problem with the fact that he'll ask me to come in the bathroom and then does it anyway and that he does that more often than do anything with me.



And I failed to mention, he also sits in the bathroom when I shower to talk to me so I'm not just "pestering the man" and "wont leave him alone".

♥ Mrs. S ♥ Due September 20; 2 kids; Venezuela 13673 posts
Nov 27th '12
Quoting Ashley Yarber:" We do, but it has to go around my son's schedule. I can't get up and have sex whenever, even if I want ... [snip!] ... But he's calling me in there and being sneaky while I'm having a conversation with him. That, to me, is crossing the line."


I have 2 kids. A 2 year old and a 1 year old. Still, DH and I find time to have sex. If you wait for a perfect time it's never going to happen. Pop a bottle in your LOs mouth while he/she is in the crib in the morning and go at it. Find ways to find time.
If I can find time with 2 little kids you can def. find time with one. It's a challenge but you can do it!

justwanttodelete Due July 23 (girl); Switzerland 1021 posts
Nov 27th '12

i would be upset that he rather do himself then do me. At least he was masturbating to you and not p**n. Maybe he finds it easier since you have a baby...try to spice it up one day when baby is sleeping or someone else is watching baby...surprise him...put something sexy on and jump him. See if that changes things. Talking to him about how you feel is important. We do it when baby is sleeping or at my moms house. You have to use every opportunity...granted i understand sometimes your too tired. My SO doesnt masturbate often...he might do it once a month if need be. good luck.

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
Nov 27th '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" You find it disturbing that he has ... [snip!] ... find it endearing, if not hot as hell."</blockquote> Yeah, we must be weird, that would make me feel loved. Haha"


Hell, the sound of my voice making him touch himself? I'd feel sexy as f**k lol

:)mommyandmore(: 2 kids; Dayton, TX, United States 1941 posts
Nov 27th '12

Trust me, he isn't doing it because of what I'm talking to him about.



I could be talking about Alek being constipated and he'll be jerking it behind the shower without me knowing. I remember a few times I'd be asking him a question and he wouldn't respond. I'd ask again and he'd say, "What?" But I didn't really think anything of it.



It's like he asks me to come talk to him, then tunes me out so he can get off. Why even ask me to come in the bathroom is my point?

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
Nov 27th '12

Op, honestly, be glad its in the shower. SO can't get off himself without p**n or pictures. He doesn't ever do it in the shower(to my knowledge of course)

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
Nov 27th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley Yarber:</b>" I don't do that because I know it bothers him. I try to consider his feelings and I feel he walks over ... [snip!] ... he also sits in the bathroom when I shower to talk to me so I'm not just "pestering the man" and "wont leave him alone"."</blockquote>




Ok where is your son if you can go into the bathroom to talk to him, he obviously isn't up and running around the house. just get in the shower with him. He's going to be having an orgasm anyway, you might as well get yours.



And having kids makes shower time one of the only times we actually get to be intimate. Lol the kids are either asleep, crafting, or watching a movie so they don't bother us and we get to be together.

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
Nov 27th '12
Quoting Legendary Amanda:" <blockquote><b>Quoting OhSoFKN Fabulous:</b>" lol the c*m part literally made me want ... [snip!] ... the curtain. And be like "THAT was impressive" No.. Wtf. Ill just look at his with a dead expression like.. Wow, good job."


Damn you. I laughed so hard a little pee came out :oops:

OhSoFKN Fabulous Due December 19 (girl); 1 child; Land O' Lakes, Florida 2314 posts
Nov 27th '12
Quoting Ashley Yarber:" Trust me, he isn't doing it because of what I'm talking to him about. I could be talking about Alek ... [snip!] ... like he asks me to come talk to him, then tunes me out so he can get off. Why even ask me to come in the bathroom is my point?"


LOL sorry but all that made me laugh.



Sit on the toilet while he's showering and go poop, maybe the thought will get him off more if you don't think its your voice.

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
Nov 27th '12
Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Ashley Yarber:</b>" I don't do that because I know it bothers ... [snip!] ... be intimate. Lol the kids are either asleep, crafting, or watching a movie so they don't bother us and we get to be together."


God i miss shower sex :cry:

♥ Mrs. S ♥ Due September 20; 2 kids; Venezuela 13673 posts
Nov 27th '12
Quoting Ashley Yarber:" Trust me, he isn't doing it because of what I'm talking to him about. I could be talking about Alek ... [snip!] ... like he asks me to come talk to him, then tunes me out so he can get off. Why even ask me to come in the bathroom is my point?"


Maybe he tunes out what you are saying and just listens to the sound of your voice.

SavageDarling 3 kids; Webster, Massachusetts 10381 posts
Nov 27th '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" God i miss shower sex :cry:"</blockquote>




I'm 17 weeks today and sadly we are on a sex ban from some bleeding I had yesterday. But otherwise morning showers are pretty much our daily sex opportunity. Lol. We set an alarm and get to I before the kids get up for the day. We have an almost 6 year old, a 22 month old who still cosleeps and number three impending. You MAKE time.

Tash+1 1 child; Canton, Ohio 7839 posts
Nov 27th '12
Quoting MommaSav2:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Chelsea Dawns Mama:</b>" God i miss shower sex :cry:"</blockquote> ... [snip!] ... get up for the day. We have an almost 6 year old, a 22 month old who still cosleeps and number three impending. You MAKE time."


We moved back in with my father recently, and he knew we shower together, and made us stop because the shower upstairs is really weak, and has already broken through twice.