JΔS Georgia 70886 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting Addisons mama :):" Here's our bed. http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a351/lifesfuckup666/9DB85E9A-3795-4DCF-A060-832D2E ... [snip!] ... the closet but he threw a fit and dumped out everything and threw them. It's mostly clean clothes but we have no room at all."


Clean your damn room. Seriously. I have two toddlers and puppy and my townhouse doesn't look anything like that. You have ONE room to clean. Stop being such a lazy slob.

Snow 1 child; Storybrooke, ME, United States 34011 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" This is f**king sad. What kind of example are y'all setting for your LO? This shit didn't happen over night."


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Andraya DeCouto Due May 24; Turlock, California 190 posts
27th Nov '12

That's fed up! Leave that piece of s***! And I don't care if he was the one working, because obviously he would still make a mess. I'm sorry that's crap! And you should leave so he can deal with the mess! If he hates it so bad tell him stop being a lazy f*** and get off his fat a** and clean it himself.

B♥Z 2 kids; Williamsport, Maryland 14245 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting MunchkinWrangler:" Agreed. Shit, my husband just leaves his boots on the floor and I pick them up... Worst case scenario ... [snip!] ... Worst case scenario we have an overflowing laundry basket... IN THE BASKET. That's just nasty. I mean... the child's BED.. WTF?"


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Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting MunchkinWrangler:" Agreed. Shit, my husband just leaves his boots on the floor and I pick them up... Worst case scenario ... [snip!] ... Worst case scenario we have an overflowing laundry basket... IN THE BASKET. That's just nasty. I mean... the child's BED.. WTF?"

Yeah, I am floored. At first I feel bad for the OP but she has let it get bad herself too and now they're fighting over the mess like children all the while their LO is living in horrid conditions.

JΔS Georgia 70886 posts
27th Nov '12

AND I see you on BG all the time. You're lazy. Get the cleanin'.

Nicole Mclovin 3 kids; Colorado 2784 posts
27th Nov '12

Somebody link the pictures?




And OP suck it up and clean it. It's your responsibility as a mother to make sure your child isn't living I. Filth whether or not your SO wants to help

Snow 1 child; Storybrooke, ME, United States 34011 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting MunchkinWrangler:" Agreed. Shit, my husband just leaves his boots on the floor and I pick them up... Worst case scenario ... [snip!] ... Worst case scenario we have an overflowing laundry basket... IN THE BASKET. That's just nasty. I mean... the child's BED.. WTF?"


We do that too but that's really it. DH and I both work and we both pick up around the house daily. I cannot stand to go to bed with it messy.

Jeni Krogman Due February 3; Melvin, Iowa 89 posts
27th Nov '12

I'd leave. That's BS! A relationship should be 50/50. I work from home and hubby outside the home but we generally share the duties. I clean a bit more b/c I'm home but he helps a lot too.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting Andraya DeCouto:" That's fed up! Leave that piece of s***! And I don't care if he was the one working, because obviously ... [snip!] ... he can deal with the mess! If he hates it so bad tell him stop being a lazy f*** and get off his fat a** and clean it himself."

Your excessive use of ! is really annoying ! especially since you don't know what you're talking about !

.legendTAYry. 1 child; Hawaii 41570 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" This is f**king sad. What kind of example are y'all setting for your LO? This shit didn't happen over night."



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JΔS Georgia 70886 posts
27th Nov '12

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Bonnie Beaver♥ TTC since Jan 2014; 2 kids; North Pole, Alaska 18155 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" This is f**king sad. What kind of example are y'all setting for your LO? This shit didn't happen over night."



Agreed. :? Jesus christ.

Just Ames 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Montego Bay, Jamaica 114793 posts
27th Nov '12

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mama erica. 2 kids; New York 60568 posts
27th Nov '12

Well, that breaks my heart.



OP, I hope you read all of this, take a step back and really look around you. Clean up that 1 bedroom you have to keep clean and do what's best for your LO. Save money, do what you have to do to care and provide for her and don't allow her to live in filth and think that that is all OK.