Andraya DeCouto Due September 21 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Turlock, California 191 posts
27th Nov '12

That's fed up! Leave that piece of s***! And I don't care if he was the one working, because obviously he would still make a mess. I'm sorry that's crap! And you should leave so he can deal with the mess! If he hates it so bad tell him stop being a lazy f*** and get off his fat a** and clean it himself.

B♥Z 2 kids; Williamsport, Maryland 14245 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting MunchkinWrangler:" Agreed. Shit, my husband just leaves his boots on the floor and I pick them up... Worst case scenario ... [snip!] ... Worst case scenario we have an overflowing laundry basket... IN THE BASKET. That's just nasty. I mean... the child's BED.. WTF?"


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JΔ$ Georgia 77555 posts
status 27th Nov '12

AND I see you on BG all the time. You're lazy. Get the cleanin'.

Nicole Mclovin 3 kids; Colorado 2784 posts
27th Nov '12

Somebody link the pictures?




And OP suck it up and clean it. It's your responsibility as a mother to make sure your child isn't living I. Filth whether or not your SO wants to help

Snow 1 child; Storybrooke, ME, United States 34017 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting MunchkinWrangler:" Agreed. Shit, my husband just leaves his boots on the floor and I pick them up... Worst case scenario ... [snip!] ... Worst case scenario we have an overflowing laundry basket... IN THE BASKET. That's just nasty. I mean... the child's BED.. WTF?"


We do that too but that's really it. DH and I both work and we both pick up around the house daily. I cannot stand to go to bed with it messy.

Jeni Krogman Due February 3 (boy); Melvin, Iowa 93 posts
27th Nov '12

I'd leave. That's BS! A relationship should be 50/50. I work from home and hubby outside the home but we generally share the duties. I clean a bit more b/c I'm home but he helps a lot too.

.legendTAYry. 1 child; Hawaii 41570 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" This is fucking sad. What kind of example are y'all setting for your LO? This shit didn't happen over night."



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JΔ$ Georgia 77555 posts
status 27th Nov '12

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Bonnie Beaver♥ Due April 8; 2 kids; North Pole, Alaska 18313 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" This is fucking sad. What kind of example are y'all setting for your LO? This shit didn't happen over night."



Agreed. :? Jesus christ.

mama erica. 2 kids; New York 60568 posts
27th Nov '12

Well, that breaks my heart.



OP, I hope you read all of this, take a step back and really look around you. Clean up that 1 bedroom you have to keep clean and do what's best for your LO. Save money, do what you have to do to care and provide for her and don't allow her to live in filth and think that that is all OK.

MunchkinWrangler 4 kids; Rīga, Latvia 46865 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:" We do that too but that's really it. DH and I both work and we both pick up around the house daily. I cannot stand to go to bed with it messy. "


I know! Shit.. we both work. He works overtime & weekends. We have three kids, a big dog.... and our house wouldn't get that messy if I didn't clean in a MONTH. My kids wouldn't even let it get that messy. She has one child, clearly has free time if she's on here... and it's that filthy? I could clean that shit out in an hour. Give me some garbage bags!

Andraya DeCouto Due September 21 (boy); 1 child; 1 angel baby; Turlock, California 191 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting Just Ames:" Your excessive use of ! is really annoying ! especially since you don't know what you're talking about !"


I don't need someone to come at me! I never did anything wrong to you, so stop taking your dumb hormonal ass out on me, stupid fuck!

Mama Charli Due August 8; 6 kids; Texas 6387 posts
27th Nov '12

sorry he treated you like that. maybe you two can clean it together? Regardless, my DDs bed would at least be clean. but if you are working and hes not then he should be helping clean it also. You said that he threw all that crap around but where was it before that.
Calling you lazy is uncalled for. at least you are up working to support your family. he should at least as the common decency to clean the mess that he made.

ILOVEWINE Due April 24; 2 kids; Sweden 10814 posts
27th Nov '12

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Oh my god OP! Clean!!!!! That's disgusting. Turn off your computer for a day and clean your room, and give away some of the junk to the goodwill. I don't blame your SO I would never sleep in there.

B♥Z 2 kids; Williamsport, Maryland 14245 posts
27th Nov '12

OP, the way he talked to you was shitty, and I do agree he needs to help. But, if he isn't going to, you need to clean it and keep it clean for your child. I feel so bad for her standing there in the huge huge piles of stuff. She should be able to live in a clean and uncluttered environment. That's really sad.



If you don't have room for all of that stuff, get rid of some of it or organize better. They sell tubs that are slim and will slide under the beds, put up some shelving, or something to get that stuff off the floor/beds.