Mama Charli Due August 8; 6 kids; Texas 6387 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting Andraya DeCouto:" Wow, I hope y'all know what karma is. Cause it's going to bite all of y'all in the ass! Good luck to the original poster. And for the rest of y'all, go f**k yourselves you pieces of shit. "

now that we have your advice, you can have mine. Grow the f**k up and stop being a little whinny b***h because someone doesn't agree with you. You say you don't care what we say to you, but you do. If you didn't, you wouldn't have your panties in a wad over something someone said over the internet. LOL. FFS if you don't like it just leave already! Cafemom would be better for you

Audreyymichelle Due June 14; 1 child; Delaware 2317 posts
27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting misanthrope:</b>" Do you have family you can stay with OP? You sound very unhappy some time apart might be the best thing."</blockquote>




No. I'm going to a shelter Friday after I buy my car for $500. I'm doing what I can but this shit kills me! I'm seconds from saying f**k it all.

misanthrope 2 kids; Ramona, California 15431 posts
27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Addisons mama :):</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting misanthrope:</b>" Do you have family you can stay with OP? You ... [snip!] ... a shelter Friday after I buy my car for $500. I'm doing what I can but this shit kills me! I'm seconds from saying f**k it all."</blockquote>




Best of luck. Until then I would just clean it up and do your best to avoid him so you don't fight with your daughter around.

OmegaDucks! Japan 615 posts
27th Nov '12

http://www.bedbathandbeyond.com/product.asp?sku=18332957&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&gclid=CMS6mayz8LMCFep9OgodzUkA_g



These work great. You can't really man handle them because the plastic can split but they do work. Wash the clothes, separate them according to seasons and store what you don't wear away. Throw away anything you really don't need.

HeatherOO7 18 kids; California 43054 posts
27th Nov '12

I would log off of BG, for real. You sound like an emotional mess right now, and reading the negativity and name calling couldn't possibly be helpful.



There are some good points though, get your thoughts together and handle that shit. Do it because you deserve happiness.

MyPurrrtyBabies 3 kids; Alabama 8386 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting ❥Charli:" this post is just all kinds of sad.... OP, save money and move to your own house. that way you will ... [snip!] ... reason they see fit. Either way, that room still needs to be clean. and it don't sound like your SO is going to do it :("


:!: agreed.



Sorry that you are going through so much. Totes w/ lids are gonna be your bestfriend. We moved into a smaller house last year and I have zero room for anything so I had to buy like 7 totes. My king size bed takes up most my bedroom with like 2ft walking space, it sucks we are hoping to move in May. Your SO was so wrong for what he said to you, it would never have gotten messy if he was picking up, shit if you are working and he is home, his ass needs to be cleaning but since he hasn't you have no choice but to clean it yourself, for the sake of your child.



Good luck OP, hope things get better for you! :)

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22498 posts
27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" "</blockquote>




:shock:



That's shit. She needs to clean and he needs too.

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22498 posts
27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Andraya DeCouto:</b>" I don't need someone to come at me! I never did anything wrong to you, so stop taking your dumb hormonal ass out on me, stupid f**k!"</blockquote>




Wow... :?

HopingforaMiracle 1 child; USA 22498 posts
27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Jas ♥:</b>" I honestly don't blame him either. She's a SAHM, there's no reason for her to not be able to keep up ... [snip!] ... exactly is OP complaining about when she says he doesn't help her. Help her with WHAT? Obviously, she doesn't clean either."</blockquote>




I thought she said she works and he doesn't?

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
27th Nov '12

Can I admit I'm terrified to look at those photos because my house is a mess right now to

The Master 2 kids; Perth, Australia 19989 posts
27th Nov '12

I think its kind of cruel that everyone is calling the OP names. 5 years ago I was diagnosed with several depressive and anxiety disorders including hoarding. My house at the time was horrific, now admittedly I didn't have children, but my condition got to such a degree that I had isolated myself from everyone because every time someone said something negative I would attempt suicide. It took two extended hospital stays (under guard), medications, and a specialist cleaning team to even start to get me out of that situation.



Even now when I'm considered stable my house fluctuates daily between me scrubbing every inch for 8 hours straight to it looking like a tornado has gone through it.



I think people should stop being so harsh to the OP and offer some support and encouragement instead.

Legendary Due August 27 (boy); 1 child; Beverly Hills, California 57425 posts
27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting The (super kinky) Master:</b>" I think its kind of cruel that everyone is calling the OP names. 5 years ago I was diagnosed with several ... [snip!] ... has gone through it. I think people should stop being so harsh to the OP and offer some support and encouragement instead."</blockquote>




You're absolutely right.

☆ IVAN'S MAMI 1 child; Utah 4210 posts
27th Nov '12

you need to clean up.... i would be mad too

MyPurrrtyBabies 3 kids; Alabama 8386 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting ☆ IVAN'S MAMI:" you need to clean up.... i would be mad too"


Did you read ALL of the pages? Because OP is working while her SO stays home 24/7, SHE should be getting mad at HIM.



Yeah she should have cleaned up when she realized he wouldn't( especially for the sake of the child ) BUT it wouldn't get messy in the first place if he wasn't being a couch potato.



Its BOTH their responsibility to keep a clean room but it is more on him to do so since he is home.

Audreyymichelle Due June 14; 1 child; Delaware 2317 posts
27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting The (super kinky) Master:</b>" I think its kind of cruel that everyone is calling the OP names. 5 years ago I was diagnosed with several ... [snip!] ... has gone through it. I think people should stop being so harsh to the OP and offer some support and encouragement instead."</blockquote>




Thanks. At least someone understands