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wwyd Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
27th Nov '12

My daughter's birthday is coming up and this will be the first year she's inviting kids from her class. She has a small classroom so she wants to invite everyone - except one.



Now I don't want my kid to be that a*****e who invites EVERYONE except one kid and I really don't want to make him feel excluded, but this kid has a really bad attitude that I've seen firsthand and my daughter complains about often. He bites, scratches, hits, says hurtful things to the kids and most times he's in the isolation chair for one problem or another. I don't want to teach Evangeline it's ok to exclude people, especially if everyone else gets included...but I really don't want to deal with this kid and make my daughter deal with him at her party just for the sake of being nice :?

мɑkɑnɑni 1 angel baby; ~, FL, United States 65283 posts
status 27th Nov '12

Invite him but make it clear that a parent needs to accompany their child. If he acts up then ask them to leave if he acts up.

** A.J's Mommy** 1 child; New Paltz, New York 803 posts
27th Nov '12

Invite the child... You can't leave 1 out. Maybe he won't show up anyways.

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
27th Nov '12

We invite everyone. Chances are he won't come. We had a kid show up to lylians party last year she didn't like and it didn't matter. They never played together or anything.

user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
27th Nov '12

you have to invite everyone. im surprised that's not a rule in you child's classroom.



as big of an a*****e as he sounds, he's still a little kid.. jeez.

мɑkɑnɑni 1 angel baby; ~, FL, United States 65283 posts
status 27th Nov '12
Quoting shes*almost*one!:" you have to invite everyone. im surprised that's not a rule in you child's classroom. as big of an a*****e as he sounds, he's still a little kid.. jeez. "


She doesn't have to do anything she isn't comfortable with.

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
27th Nov '12

That's a really tough call :/ maybe invite him like someone else suggested but ask he be accompanied?

Gheordynn [CNL] 3 kids; Edmonton, Alberta 20462 posts
27th Nov '12

Invite him, but have the parents (every parent) leave a number where they can be reached during the party. If he starts acting up, you have them come get him. That's what happened at one of my daughter's classmate's party.



(No, she wasn't the trouble maker)

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" you have to invite everyone. im surprised that's not a rule in you child's classroom. as big of an a*****e as he sounds, he's still a little kid.. jeez. "</blockquote>




Um why should my kid's preschool have any ruling over what I do with my time and money outside of school hours or off the premesis.

user banned 1 child; Boston, Massachusetts 30985 posts
27th Nov '12
Quoting dat uterus tho:" <blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" you have to invite everyone. im surprised ... [snip!] ... should my kid's preschool have any ruling over what I do with my time and money outside of school hours or off the premesis."


because it affects all the children... are you serious? you must be the biggest jerk if you're seriously considering excluding one little prick

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" because it affects all the children... are you serious? you must be the biggest jerk if you're seriously considering excluding one little prick"</blockquote>
The kids dont even know. We have kids selectively Invite to parties all the time. We just stuff them in their backpacks and don't make a big deal of it.

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
27th Nov '12

All parents well be invited to stay, I'm so not handling 20-ish 4 and 5 year olds by myself :lol:



But I've met the kid's mom and he just walks all over her and I'm sure I'll have to ask them to leave, since he's had to be asked to leave after-school functions/parties/meet ups every time I've gone.



Hopefully that won't make shit awkward because I volunteer a lot with the parents night outs and stuff.

lolajessup Due July 25 (girl); 2 kids; 1 angel baby; Beaverton, Michigan 44057 posts
27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting dat uterus tho:</b>" All parents well be invited to stay, I'm so not handling 20-ish 4 and 5 year olds by myself :lol: But ... [snip!] ... every time I've gone. Hopefully that won't make shit awkward because I volunteer a lot with the parents night outs and stuff."</blockquote>



Just pray they dont come haha

*A&N's Mama* 2 kids; Halifax, Nova Scotia 4627 posts
27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting dat uterus tho:</b>" All parents well be invited to stay, I'm so not handling 20-ish 4 and 5 year olds by myself :lol: But ... [snip!] ... every time I've gone. Hopefully that won't make shit awkward because I volunteer a lot with the parents night outs and stuff."</blockquote>




If you have to ask them to leave don't let it make you feel bad or awkward. It's not your fault their son can't control himself, that's their problem. I'd be embarassed as f**k if that were my kid

Vivialopod 2 kids; Vantaa, Finland 42775 posts
27th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting shes*almost*one!:</b>" because it affects all the children... are you serious? you must be the biggest jerk if you're seriously considering excluding one little prick"</blockquote>



You're the a*****e for calling a 4 year old names.



I'm not apologizing for considering excluding someone who I KNOW will injure one of my guests or my child.