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MX23 Japan 674 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting Not tellin:" The point is that you are making childish decisions when you clearly thought that you were old enough ... [snip!] ... your phone and paying attention and remember that you aren't the only person to be affected by your choices both good and bad."


well i am really trying. im feeling better and will be back to school soon. i have all my homework that i missed and am trying to do it the best i can. im having a hard time with the homework but at least im trying.



im gonna not skip class and really try to bring my grades up for the last half of the year. im really strugling with the lessons and assignments and really need to do something or i am gonna fail. i dont want that so i need to start doing better.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting MX23:" well i am really trying. im feeling better and will be back to school soon. i have all my homework that ... [snip!] ... lessons and assignments and really need to do something or i am gonna fail. i dont want that so i need to start doing better."


:wink:



Remember what I said earlier, your GF will be in a different chapter before you can get there. Communication is key. She already grasps this and her world changes before yours. The more involved you are in the pregnancy, the less of a gap the two of you will have in the "process".



Ask your school about night classes. I have a nephew who for some stupid reason will not do his homework. He scores well on the quizs and tests but he will not turn in a single assignment. In our area, he is able to take night classes to make up the classes he has or is about to fail. He is 15 and his brother is 16. My sister was a teen mom. I know the song you are dancing to. Stay focused and you can accomplish what you need. Especially since your parents are pretty much taking care of everything. Focus on being a supportive BF, a positve role model as a dad and get a career in place to provide for your family.

MX23 Japan 674 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting Not tellin:" :wink: Remember what I said earlier, your GF will be in a different chapter before you can get there. ... [snip!] ... Focus on being a supportive BF, a positve role model as a dad and get a career in place to provide for your family. "


yeah i wanna be involved in the whole thing.



they dont have night classes only summer school. i guess i could ask my parents to get me a tutor. he prolly doesnt wanna do homework cuz they give way to much. i never do it either but have to now. its hard to do after going to school all day and still have a life.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting MX23:" yeah i wanna be involved in the whole thing. they dont have night classes only summer school. i guess ... [snip!] ... give way to much. i never do it either but have to now. its hard to do after going to school all day and still have a life. "


They don't give too much. He isn't in honors classes and honestly, one assignment a night is not that much. The problem is that a social life needs to be secondary to school. You will never get anywhere making social life a priority over education. Education is what is going to provide for your family.

MX23 Japan 674 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting Not tellin:" They don't give too much. He isn't in honors classes and honestly, one assignment a night is not that ... [snip!] ... will never get anywhere making social life a priority over education. Education is what is going to provide for your family. "


yeah but 1 assignment for every class sucks. teachers need to remember they arent the only ones giving us homework. every1 needs a social life

FroggysMommy 1 child; Golden, Colorado 27786 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting MX23:" yeah but 1 assignment for every class sucks. teachers need to remember they arent the only ones giving us homework. every1 needs a social life"


The fuck are you talking about.... school trumps your social life. 1 assignment for every class? BOO FUCKING HOO. "Oh Im sorry, I couldn't assign your child math homework because I thought their social life was more important. Sorry that he is now not ready for his math assessment, but hey.... HE GOT TO HANG OUT WITH FRIENDS!"



Dumbass.

MX23 Japan 674 posts
7th Dec '12
Quoting FroggysMommy:" The fuck are you talking about.... school trumps your social life. 1 assignment for every class? BOO ... [snip!] ... more important. Sorry that he is now not ready for his math assessment, but hey.... HE GOT TO HANG OUT WITH FRIENDS!" Dumbass."


wow. no need to call me names and bitch me out like your my parents. i was just saying that it sucks going to school all day then coming home and having to spend all night on homework. there is no need to assign homework in every class every day. i should b alowed a social life after school like the teachers get.



im not saying im not gonna do it cuz i have to now. i need to pass so i really gotta do that.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
8th Dec '12
Quoting MX23:" yeah but 1 assignment for every class sucks. teachers need to remember they arent the only ones giving us homework. every1 needs a social life"


LMAO!!! Seriously? Here I thought we were making progress! Your social life comes AFTER your education and it is clear that your "social life" is what landed you in this mess. The assignments you get in high school are NOTHING compared to what you will encounter in college. Good luck with all that!

MX23 Japan 674 posts
8th Dec '12
Quoting Not tellin:" LMAO!!! Seriously? Here I thought we were making progress! Your social life comes AFTER your education ... [snip!] ... The assignments you get in high school are NOTHING compared to what you will encounter in college. Good luck with all that!"


i never said i wasnt not gonna do my homework. im gonna start cuz i need better grades. just isnt fair that it takes so long to do it.



but with college i wont be taking as many classes and they arent everyday so i could handle the homework easier



my social life didnt land me in this mess.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
8th Dec '12
Quoting MX23:" i never said i wasnt not gonna do my homework. im gonna start cuz i need better grades. just isnt fair ... [snip!] ... as many classes and they arent everyday so i could handle the homework easier my social life didnt land me in this mess."


Oh WAAAAAAA, It's NOT FAIR!!! I don't feel sorry for you in the least. We have all been there and done that. Be a man and buck up. This whining is what tells everyone you are self entitled and a spoiled brat.




Then it will take you FOREVER to get thru college. You will be on the 10 year plan just so you can have a social life. lol Awesome!



Yes, your desire for your "social life" is what landed you in this mess. If you were more focused on your studies.........................

MX23 Japan 674 posts
8th Dec '12
Quoting Not tellin:" Oh WAAAAAAA, It's NOT FAIR!!! I don't feel sorry for you in the least. We have all been there and done ... [snip!] ... for your "social life" is what landed you in this mess. If you were more focused on your studies........................."


im not whining and dont think im a spoiled brat.



i wanna finish school in 4 years like every1 else. im just saying classes arent ALL DAy EVERY day so i have more time to do work and hang out with friends.



yeah i prolly should have focused on school more b4 but im really trying hard now. its hard tho when u dont understand the lessons.

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
8th Dec '12
Quoting MX23:" im not whining and dont think im a spoiled brat. i wanna finish school in 4 years like every1 else. ... [snip!] ... i prolly should have focused on school more b4 but im really trying hard now. its hard tho when u dont understand the lessons."


You aren't understanding the lessons because you are more focused on a social life. You are back and forth on this consistantly. If you don't understand the lesson, you can stay after class/ school for some extra help and even take a little extra study time at home.



I hate to break it to you but a full schedule of college is basically like high school. That isn't all day either. the difference is that you can be in one class for 3 hrs in one day rather than have 3 classes in 3 hours.



Yes, whining about the amount of homework is being a spoiled brat. Sorry, it is there. Do you realize that here in the US, our students do less homework and less in studies than countries comparable to us in economic structure? We are actually behind the curve. European children speak more than 2 languages fluently. Here, we think we are something special if we can muster two!



In a few years you will understand. I hope it doesn't take you that long but my fear is that it will

MX23 Japan 674 posts
9th Dec '12
Quoting Not tellin:" You aren't understanding the lessons because you are more focused on a social life. You are back and ... [snip!] ... if we can muster two! In a few years you will understand. I hope it doesn't take you that long but my fear is that it will"


well maybe but im trying to catch up now. i might ask my parents if they can get me a tutor so i can get caught up.



i always thought college was like u take 1 class 3 days a week for 1 hour or 2 days a week for 1.5 hours.



every1 i know bitches about the amount of homework that they get. im glad im not in those countries then. i could never learn another lannguage and do that much homework. while i am trying to do better at school and bring my grades up there is more to life than school. just saying every1 needs a social lifel

Not tellin 3 kids; Montana 55983 posts
9th Dec '12
Quoting MX23:" well maybe but im trying to catch up now. i might ask my parents if they can get me a tutor so i can ... [snip!] ... trying to do better at school and bring my grades up there is more to life than school. just saying every1 needs a social lifel"


A social life is relative. You don't need to be out every night with your friends. That is what weekends are for. During the school week, it should be about your studies and school activities.



College will be a rude awakening for you if that is how you think it goes. lol You might want to cut back on your social life and start studying for your SAT's and visit a few colleges.

MX23 Japan 674 posts
9th Dec '12
Quoting Not tellin:" A social life is relative. You don't need to be out every night with your friends. That is what weekends ... [snip!] ... think it goes. lol You might want to cut back on your social life and start studying for your SAT's and visit a few colleges. "


well im grounded for month anyways so i have no social life now even on weekends. if i dont get all my grades better im gonna be grounded for another month so i have to get better grades so i am trying to work on all that.



i was just saying that all school all the time isnt good. every1 needs a break.



im just gonna go to the community college for couple years then maybe go somewhere else. i didnt takes the sats. the community college doesnt need them.