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Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20919 posts
28th Nov '12
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" <blockquote><b>Quoting
V & E's Mom! 2 kids; Stockton, California 4782 posts
28th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting

Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20919 posts
28th Nov '12
Quoting V & E's Mom! [25 weeks]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... bed no joke 15-20 times. I thought I was the only one."</blockquote> My daughter doesn't know what spanking is :( lol"


oh, yea I guess I just assumed that you spank, whoops. lol

bleubaloos Due December 2 (girl); New York 12 posts
28th Nov '12

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V & E's Mom! 2 kids; Stockton, California 4782 posts
28th Nov '12

Although right about now I wish she did, so i can use it as a threat.

V & E's Mom! 2 kids; Stockton, California 4782 posts
28th Nov '12

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Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20919 posts
28th Nov '12
Quoting V & E's Mom! [25 weeks]:" Although right about now I wish she did, so i can use it as a threat."


well most of the time using threats doesn't even work unless you follow through. I have a friend IRL who threatens her kid allll the time but of course she doesn't even listen anymore because she rarely actually does what she says she's going to.

⚓Misty⚓ 4 kids; Keenesburg, Colorado 7272 posts
28th Nov '12
Quoting V & E's Mom! [25 weeks]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Misty Walls:</b>" I had climbers to. I had to get a baby a ... [snip!] ... "</blockquote> Where did you get it from? I get paid next Thursday so if it works with the climbing, I'll buy one."


my mom bought it so im sure she got it at walmart or target or kmart. Maybe toys are us. Get the one with the latch on top not down in the middle. The middle ones they get their foot on it & can get right over
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See they can use the latch on these to climb

V & E's Mom! 2 kids; Stockton, California 4782 posts
28th Nov '12

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V & E's Mom! 2 kids; Stockton, California 4782 posts
28th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting Misty Walls:</b>" my mom bought it so im sure she got it at walmart or target or kmart. Maybe toys are us. Get the one ... [snip!] ... in the middle. The middle ones they get their foot on it & can get right over See they can use the latch on these to climb"</blockquote>




I'll be looking into it. And possibly selling my $40 gate :( lol

I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49254 posts
28th Nov '12

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Mrs. Conan O'Brien 2 kids; Colorado 20919 posts
28th Nov '12
Quoting I'm His Amy He's My Rory:" <blockquote><b>Quoting
⚓Misty⚓ 4 kids; Keenesburg, Colorado 7272 posts
28th Nov '12
Quoting V & E's Mom! [25 weeks]:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Misty Walls:</b>" my mom bought it so im sure she got it at ... [snip!] ... can use the latch on these to climb"</blockquote> I'll be looking into it. And possibly selling my $40 gate :( lol"

Here you go
http://www.walmart.com/ip/Regalo-Easy-Step-Extra-Tall-Walk-Thru-Metal-Gate/4858082



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I'm His Amy He's My Rory 2 kids; Caldwell, Idaho 49254 posts
28th Nov '12

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bleubaloos Due December 2 (girl); New York 12 posts
28th Nov '12

Wow. I am so very sorry for your struggles. There's been times when I wanted to shut the door and cry.



I had problems with my daughter sometimes too.
Usually...it was because of a change. A change in my stress levels that were affecting her, a move, a new routine...etc.



I always read that when a child gets out of bed...you put them right back in. And yes...you do it until they don't come out again.



Well..f that....it never worked for me!!!!



I know this will be a lot harder for you, because of the toddler bed situation....(which I would get rid of)...but the only thing that DID work for me and my daughter was the usual bath and book routine....like you already do.... And then I would lay in bed with her and very very lightly rub her back.



I also played classical music...or had a fan going for white noise...etc...



If that didn't work...and when I got sick of it...I would then pretend to be asleep myself....completely ignore her...and pray that she would go to sleep. Lol




Honestly...it sucked. I know. We are tired. We have other things we need to be doing. Sometimes I would really pass out..lol.
But it honestly didn't take long for her to fall asleep this way. I feel like it was just a habit I was giving her though...getting used to having Mommy in bed.



I would get up when she fell asleep. She knew it too..it was our arrangement.



I'm sorry, I wish I had a miracle cure for you. Just hang in there. :)
Try not to show your frustration because then she'll show hers more too..lol.... Little stinkers can't let you have a moment.




As for the spanking thing....that always made things worse for me. I tried it a few times and it only made it worse. There's a reason why she's doing this...you just have to figure it out and fix it. Or maybe the spanking helps? Lol...all I know is that it never helped me!
Good luck! I totally feel your pain and I hope it works out soon!