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Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
Nov 28th '12
Quoting Dontai's MUMMY!:" but he took me out to a movie and dinner last weekend and i loved it! i wish he would take me out more ... [snip!] ... son off to his grandma and i'll g out and do what i do. but i wanna stop. i dont wanna blame him as to why im doing this though"


You need to talk to him and let him know how you're feeling without nagging or whining.

Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
Nov 28th '12
Quoting Naocorn:" Do you think you are subconciously punishing him? It may be good for him to come to therapy with you, ... [snip!] ... I'm happier with a man who devotes a lot of time with me and the kids and I trust. So you never know how things will turn out."


Same here, very true!

Its Eh-Lei Ocala, Florida 4303 posts
Nov 28th '12
Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" She has real issues that you probably couldn't understand even if you tried. And name calling sooo helps lol let me try...Rude b***h. :roll: Btw "tis is all"? Wrong. Good day! 8)"



Public FORUM.
she posted.
I commented.
My opinion is MY opinion.
I don't want to understand it lmao. If you cheat on someone once okay maybe there is an issue or it was payback. Multiple times and then you reach out on a public forum that ANYONE can access. I don't think so.
gosh I love being a rude b***h! -- If you go threw my posts I actually DON'T ever say anything to anyone but this lady is a straight wh**e.



like I said tis is all. =D

Daniee 2 kids; 1 angel baby; South Hill, WA, United States 4855 posts
Nov 29th '12

I do not believe there is ever an excuse to cheat!



I have never cheated, I never will. The heart break that carries is the worst!
I would never cause someone that pain.



It's quite simple to keep your vagina to yourself and your SO.



It's a very simple choice. I do not condone cheating. I would never wish it against my worse enemy.



You are doing something so horrible to that man and your family, you have a child together! You need to break up with that man, tell him the truth and let him move on and be happy with someone who will treat him with respect.



My SO works all the time, I work when he's off. We barely spend time together and never have sex. You don't see me dropping my child off with her grandma to go cheat on him! It's simple don't do it!
The thought has never even crossed my mind.
My ex cheated on me all the time, it was horrible. That heart sinking feeling...

Kelly+Brandon=Blake 1 child; Maryland 1260 posts
Nov 29th '12
Quoting Its Eh-Lei:" Public FORUM. she posted. I commented. My opinion is MY opinion. I don't want to understand it ... [snip!] ... go threw my posts I actually DON'T ever say anything to anyone but this lady is a straight wh**e. like I said tis is all. =D"


Um..didn't ask for an explanation lol and I don't care why you said what you said. That was MY opinion. Tis all I have to say to you :twisted:

Dontai's MUMMY! 1 child; 3 angel babies; Memphis, Tennessee 458 posts
Nov 30th '12
Quoting Its Eh-Lei:" Public FORUM. she posted. I commented. My opinion is MY opinion. I don't want to understand it ... [snip!] ... go threw my posts I actually DON'T ever say anything to anyone but this lady is a straight wh**e. like I said tis is all. =D"


yo mami b***h f**k u

Its Eh-Lei Ocala, Florida 4303 posts
Dec 1st '12
Quoting Dontai's MUMMY!:" yo mami b***h f**k u"


aweeeee you made meee cryyy by typing out your words?

Its Eh-Lei Ocala, Florida 4303 posts
Dec 1st '12
Quoting Kelly+Brandon=Blake:" Um..didn't ask for an explanation lol and I don't care why you said what you said. That was MY opinion. Tis all I have to say to you :twisted:"


lmao made no gosh.darn sense

I♡C&R. 2 kids; Thornton, CO, United States 25551 posts
Dec 1st '12
Quoting Jas ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Dontai's MUMMY!:</b>" i cant. i just cant explain this. he ... [snip!] ... cheated on my husband but I know how it feels to want someone's attention. I went through that when my husband was deployed."

I'm going through something similar minus the sex and cheating part. Husband works 10 hour shifts Mon-Thur 3p-1:30a but is gone 2p-2a for those shifts since he works nearly an hour away. It's tough. I'm alone, bored, and lonely. And when he's home, he's "too tired" to spend time with me. I can relate, but I'd never go out and have sex and cheat on him. I'd just be done if it came to that.

❥Me&Boogaman 1 child; Columbus, Georgia 3000 posts
Dec 1st '12

Number One. You need to break up with him if you can't be faithful to him.
I think women cheat because they need to have a space filled, like something is lacking in the current relationship. Women like attention & affection, and at the beginning of a relationship, all that is brand new. I mean, I'm not saying that doesn't continue in some relationships.He's complementing you, making you feel special & you get that butterfly feeling again. You feel like you have a reason to dress up, look nice. You get nervous again...etc. I'm not saying everyone needs to go out and cheat so they can feel special again, but that is why some women do.