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if someone ever said this to you.... user banned
28th Nov '12

If you are pretty much the only person who parents your child and someone who wasn't their parent told you this when you were saying that you want consequences to be consistent.



"There is zero consistance regariding things with her right now."



what would they be telling you in your mind?

Sarah ♥ K&K 2 kids; 2 angel babies; Oceanside, CA, United States 112711 posts
status 28th Nov '12

My mind would automatically go to "they're implying I'm a shitty parent"

GL♣PC♥BC 3 kids; Atlanta, GA, United States 9395 posts
28th Nov '12

I would wonder what "things" they were talking about.. How exactly are these "things" different now than before

thechelseamonster 2 kids; Colorado 29568 posts
28th Nov '12

That you're/ I'm unstable.

Sweetheart...* Due July 30 (girl); 1 child; Florida 1290 posts
28th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:</b>" My mind would automatically go to "they're implying I'm a shitty parent""</blockquote>




I would think this too..

[Boats&Hoes] 2 kids; Youngstown, Ohio 62966 posts
28th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:</b>" My mind would automatically go to "they're implying I'm a shitty parent""</blockquote>




This. It's like they're saying I'm not a stable or consistent mother.

Punk Rock Princess {EBFT} 3 kids; Killeen, Texas 26868 posts
28th Nov '12

That her behavior is inconsistent...B says this sometimes.

user banned Shreveport, Louisiana 66739 posts
28th Nov '12

Ok, yeah that is what I thought to. I am being told I misinterpreted it. I obviously did not, what I think is someone lost their temper and said something that was supposed to be hurtful to lash out, then felt bad about it after and tried to say that he didn't.

Sweetheart...* Due July 30 (girl); 1 child; Florida 1290 posts
28th Nov '12

<blockquote><b>Quoting TantricLemons:</b>" Ok, yeah that is what I thought to. I am being told I misinterpreted it. I obviously did not, what I ... [snip!] ... and said something that was supposed to be hurtful to lash out, then felt bad about it after and tried to say that he didn't."</blockquote>



Sounds like it, since Idk how that could be taken any other way..

user banned 2 kids; Minnesota 7318 posts
28th Nov '12

Maybe they meant there have been a lot of changes with her lately.



But I would feel insulted.

£exaholic 2 kids; Colorado 20867 posts
28th Nov '12

um... that she has no discipline? or maybe that you are super strict one day then the next day don't give a f**k?



:?

aileen87 Japan 5 posts
29th Nov '12

I could ponder what "things" they were speaking of.. How precisely are the proposed "things" diverse now than earlier



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user banned Colorado 21030 posts
30th Nov '12

It would say to me that the person is a douchebag and doesnt know what they are talking about.